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i was with this girl for 12 months and i was properly in love i would do anything for her if she was ever in trouble i would always be there but then we brake up cus i did suttin stupid (not cheating or anything)
now she is with someone else and i cnt get over her please someone give me advice tht works its been 4 months now and i cnt get over her
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how to get over someone... hmmm... not much i can give ya on this besides that all wounds will heal. but i bet your not going to get over her until the next one stumbles into your life. but when they come, you will have to make a choice, to let go of the past, or embrace the future.
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I agree with Kazrith. I wish I had better advice than to just wait it out, but I assure you that's how the cliche "Time heals all wounds" started. It will get easier. The important thing is to remmeber it's over whenever you are thinking about her, and not still hoping for a chance at getting back together. This will make the transition to acceptance easier.
Enjoy whatever else it is you enjoy, and identify the things about yourself you love most.
And, as Kazrith pointed out, perhaps the MOST important thing is to ALLOW yourself to explore any new feelings you get for someone else. Don't feel guilty, don't push them away because "It's just not the same" or something, just embrace it and see what happens.
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stick your dong in a cup of ice water, and be thankful you're not wasting your time and love on her and do something else. That usually works.
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to get over her
realise that the thing that made you fall in love with her she alone does not possess. those things can exist in your interaction with other people, in a different form. -
If she is meant to be then she will come back to you. If not then as hard as it maybe you'll need to move on and find someone else. Everything happens for reasons.
The best of luck to you in the future
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Fake it till you make it! The intensity of love will eventually fade and you will become interested in someone else. If you were meant to be together you will... if not take it as a life lesson...find out what you learned through this and dont make the same mistake.
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I dont know how exactly comforting this is going to be but I once heard someone say that it takes the same time to get over someone as you were with them.If that made sense. Basically their theory was if you were with them for a year its going to take that long to be over them. Otherwise I think you should take time to look over the memories you had but realize that as of now they are just memories and prepare yourself to move on.
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I don't think so. What about people who get divorced after many years of marriage and the courtship period before it, and move on only after a few years or so.
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I dont really agree with it myself. People heal at different rates. Sometimes you have a stronger bond with different people. It was offered as possible comfort as something that seemed to help other people. Thats why I added my own.
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Why does it matter how old they are? Since when is there an age limit for loving someone or feeling incredibly close?
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Its not really that long. I think it mostly depends on how deep the relationship was.
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Just because it was a deep relationship doesnt mean they were in love. And a year long relationship to a teenager isnt all that long. Been there. Wasnt that long and sadly didnt take me long to get over it.
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You dont have to be in love with someone to have a deep relationship with them.
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Its a shame for you hun, but the best thing is accept it, go and have some fun and move on.
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