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PROVE that being gay is wrong...

is there any arguement other than "the bible says so"?

is there any LOGICAL arguement against them?

let me cover one of the more "popular" arguements right off the bat so we dont have to deal with it later: being gay is unnatural-----

"some animals are actually homosexual. one example is penguins. silo and his partner live in a zoo some where in the states only swim, mate and other such things with each other. look it up on the net, you will find it.

oh, and at wikipedia there is a whole list of animals that include dogs, cats, dolphins, bison, and sheep" - Kazrith

"So many cases of homosexuality involving different species of animals have been recorded. You would be surprised. I guess you have to research your stuff before making assumptions. If the world were constituted of 100 humans, 10 would be gay. Did you know that? Probably not." - Axelle Black

"when given the choice 8% of male rams consistantly mount other male rams, often engaging in intercourse." - ennoia

--------------------------------------------- but let get even more specific... why is gay MARRIAGE wrong... even IF (and thats a big IF) being gay is wrong, why shouldn't we let them marry? their not forcing anyone to be gay.... and not letting them marry is not going to make them any less gay...


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  • 10 reasons why gay marriage is "wrong"

    10 Reasons Why Gay Marriage is "Wrong"

    1) Being gay is not natural. Real Americans always reject unnatural things like eyeglasses, polyester, and air conditioning.

    2) Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make you tall.

    3) Legalizing gay marriage will open the door to all kinds of crazy behavior. People may even wish to marry their pets because a dog has legal standing and can sign a marriage contract.

    4) Straight marriage has been around a long time and hasn't changed at all; women are still property, blacks still can't marry whites, and divorce is still illegal.

    5) Straight marriage will be less meaningful if gay marriage were allowed; the sanctity of Brittany Spears' 55-hour just-for-fun marriage would be destroyed.

    6) Straight marriages are valid because they produce children. Gay couples, infertile couples, and old people shouldn't be allowed to marry because our orphanages aren't full yet, and the world needs more children.

    7) Obviously gay parents will raise gay children, since straight parents only raise straight children.

    8) Gay marriage is not supported by religion. In a theocracy like ours, the values of one religion are imposed on the entire country. That's why we have only one religion in America.

    9) Children can never succeed without a male and a female role model at home. That's why we as a society expressly forbid single parents to raise children.

    10) Gay marriage will change the foundation of society; we could never adapt to new social norms. Just like we haven't adapted to cars, the service-sector economy, or longer life spans

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    since so many of you seem to think that this is a serious attack on homosexuality, i ask you to read it again....

    it is sarcasm...

    i fully support gay marriage...

    i am bisexual...

    41%  Voted for by Sint, aztec ghost, thefix, Wisteria, Musical Anomaly. (46 total)
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  • Well

    Well instead of me proving that being gay is wrong, why don't you prove how being gay is right?

    9%  Voted for by joshuada, ScarletMatriarch, ElisaRose, Your mothers a cow, NeedsLNow. (10 total)
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  • Gay Marriage is OKAY

    The problem with many of the major religions is that they force their way into the government. With this, they place their own morals and values upon EVERYONE, aka, Gay is Wrong.

    Everyone says being gay is wrong. They say, 'read the bible.'

    Let me be honest with you. The bible is a book. If I wanted, I could grab a copy of Stephen King's 'It', proclaim it the bible of a religion, and create a mass religion based off of a monster that lives in the sewers and eats children, then work my way into the governemnt and say it's a law you can't ever walk into a sewer.

    See how stupid that sounds? But it's true. This is what happens when religion corrupts the government.

    There are lots of good points here, from both sides. You're right. We USED to be animals, and we still are, just not much more. But there are still gay people out there. What does it matter to you if their gay. If YOU'RE not, get your damn nose out of their business. They're not attacking you because your straight.

    Being gay is not a choice. It happens. Big deal. It's not a sense of morality here. Get over it. Things happen that you're not comfortable with, but if it's not directly affecting you, it shouldn't matter.

    Marriage in a religious form is strictly religious, but you CAN get married in a court of law, as in being married in the eye of the government. The government shall not favor any religion, nor deny any, as stated in the constitution. With this, the government should not deny homosexuals the RIGHT to marry. The RIGHT. Understand? The freedom of speech, the first amendment gurantees the RIGHT to individuality. Don't take that away from us.

    7%  Voted for by sjrlink100, unheardwisdom, Sunflower Kisses, Holly Ritz, cosmosis. (8 total)
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  • WHY DO WE EVEN CARE??

    It's none of your business who I love, and who I marry. Just care about who YOU love and who YOU marry. I don't see the big thing on this. Plus, WHY should you care about who OTHER people marry?

    6%  Voted for by frndofyaweh, Highof75, me alone, spanner, NeferMaatNetjer. (7 total)
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  • LOOK HERE ALL PERSONS

    Er, wrong and right are opinions, ne? You can't win arguments with opinions... Also, somepoeple say being gay is unnatural... Some people also say people of african heritage are unnatural... Some people say people who can run fast are unnatural... Some people say really smart people are unnatural.. Better queston... WHAT IS NATURAL!?

    5%  Voted for by Lady Strife, SenseiRidgway, spanner, josh.sainsbury, WiseOwl. (6 total)
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  • This how i feel about Gays...

    Why are we trying to prove that Gay relationships are wrong and something that should be punishable by law for? I have nothing against Gays and i am fully straight, they are people just like everybody else, they have feelings like everybody else. They follow their hearts and really it only matters if they think what they are doing is wrong. Why should we think that Gay relationships are wrong just because the bible says so? There is nothing wrong in being Gay, its just love between two people just like between Hetrosexual relationships...open your eyes and see that Gay relationships are just another example of love between two people. It doesnt really matter what everybody thinks if you are gay, just aslong as you are happy and feel that its right.

    4%  Voted for by AnnaJayne, sjrlink100, cosmosis, Peace forever, spanner.
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  • Here we go again???

    Another person who is comparing humans to Animals again? Okay so what if 8% of them are confused, does that mean humans should mimic animals?! By the way Animalism is a curse of the temptations. Animals are also cursed by human errors. We are supposed to be looking at animal behaviour as an example of, how NOT to act as humans. Which means; you are defending my point of view that, Homosexuality is wrong.

    3%  Voted for by the finer point, frndofyaweh, Mujtaba H Zaidi, slshaw115.
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  • Oh, You're gay....

    gay marriage is tottally cool. Since when does the government rule by the bible, and if it ever does completely the government will fault, because of the right of relgion. and A lot of gay people read the bible and believe in god, or at least I've always thought so. My drum major, ( leader of marching band) is gay, and I never really realized it. I mean everyone makes fun of him all the time about it and I just figured they were kidding or something but one day at a party I was having at my house I confronted him about it, and he told me he was gay. I always thought he was just bisexual if anything because it turns out I had a crush on him when he was younger. He had recently came out this year and he is one of the most down to earth people I will probably ever meet in my life. And he just happens to be extremely sexy. There was this freshman that really doesnt like him because of his sexual preferance, but the thing about it was so amazing the way he handled it. A lot of gay people blow up at people with explanations on why it's so GREAT to be gay and they tell them tht being straight might even be wrong, but My friend told him that he had his own choice, that he believed in god and he felt like he didn't want to lie to the world forever and have god be mad at him for lying, making a mistake at something he knew in his heart since he was like... 13 years old. That blew me away, because I had never heard someone talk about sexuality like that. Even though, I'm straight I can see where he is coming from, and I defintely think that being gay is something that someone has a choice on. If they want to marry someone of the same sex, let them do that. Society on the other hand should be open to people's views on the world and should accept people for who they are not what the look like, what sex they prefer, what color their skin is, the income their family makes. Everything is so judgemental sometimes I think that I might have a heartattack feeling sorry for the people that try to make a difference. How ever, people that make a difference need NO pity, they are the bravest, craziest, most-outgoing people in the world, and they should be reconginized positively instead of negitively. Thank you and have a nice day

    2%  Voted for by ljeenu, spanner, Winter Wolf.
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  • can you really help who you love??

    loving some one is not some thing you can control is it?...i always thought that any one could fall in love with any one...and if some one wants to be with the person they love forever they can do that....but people are taking that away from homosexuals just because ther the same sex well thats not right...they fell in love, its not there falt that the person they love is the same sex....and they can adopt kids the orphaniges are getting to full any way so why not let them get married and adopt.....

    2%  Voted for by frndofyaweh, biggy-fan-u-555, spanner.
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  • sexuality

    you are what you are. you can't choose your sexuality. you can't be force to be gay, straight or bisexual. I have no problem with anyone, you are who you are, and if people can't accept that, then that is their problem.

    2%  Voted for by Morbid Enigma, cosmosis, spanner.
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  • people!!

    sorry can't prove its wrong. you can't.Is it that hard to understand. Sometimes its following your heart and sometimes it lust or etc. it sounds like the same thing for straight people. so yall need to chill down cause first off don't be gay if ya don't like it. Ya can't always help what you desire anyway but hey feel free to grow up anyday and except the fact that there are people out there that aren't the same and don't want to blend with you or maybe differ in intersts. Hate just makes you seem so jealous. Some peoples base rights and wrongs on the bible but not everybody lives their life by the bible. Some say its not natural but lots of things aren't unnatural but its still there and yet people can dwell on homosexuals being unnatural

    1%  Voted for by Ominee Haynes, cosmosis.
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  • Geez

    I don't like gay marriage, I can't understand why a gay person would want to be married. Marriage is a Christian practice and we all know that Christianity says gays are wrong. Have a joined union or something, why a marriage? To say that being gay is natural, it really isn't, it's not the natural order of things and science will prove that. If your gay then your gay, you are clearly different from a straight person, so what's this need gay people have for wanting to allign, or assimilate themselves with straight people?

    1%  Voted for by ElisaRose, Mujtaba H Zaidi.
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  • Define the Terms

    Before two parties can intelligently debate an issue it is necessary to define the terms. The biggest problem with your question is the word "WRONG". Christians accept the Bible as God's Constitution, and because the Bible says homosexuality is an abomination, it takes no further proof to prove that homosexuality is wrong. If we are asking atheists what is right and wrong, they might refer to the U.S. Constitution, or State Law, or the Satanic Verses or who knows what? If the U.S. Supreme Court outlaws any and all homosexual behavior tomorrow, then all like behavior WILL BE WRONG until the end of time or until their decision is overturned. So, if you wanted to engage in such activities, you could fly to the Netherlands where it is "NOT WRONG" according to local laws, and customs.

    I'd have to say that, as of today, there is an American consensus that homosexuality is wrong and THAT is what makes homosexuality wrong. Bikini swimsuits were wrong in the 1920's. They are OK today. Consensus changes and the media is going full blast right now to try to legitimize the whole gamut of perverse behavior. It would be interesting to be able to monitor society for the next few hundred years stopping in every decade for a few days to see how social mores change.

    1%  Voted for by EarthToJim, endsofbread.
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  • My opinion

    Hello, all...my name is Nick.

    I am 14, a sophomore in high school, getting straight A's and B's in school. I wear the same clothes as everyone else. I have medium length brown hair and greenish greyish eyes. I have a mom and a dad, and a sister. I also have a dog and a cat. Nothing is unnatural about my life.

    My opinion on gay marriage is non-existant. I always look on both sides of the fence. On one side, love is love no matter what. On the other side, gay marriage can start problems. Heterosexual friends can say they are married just to get the benefits.

    Most people who listen to my opinion on things like it. If you have agreed with what I've said so far. Let me say something that may change your views, if you are extremely close-minded.

    I'm gay.

    1%  Voted for by mr cheeseydude, GinryuStargazer.
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  • depends how you look at it

    yes animals may be gay, that doesn't make it natural. 'natural', the dictionary definitions doesn't say 'wot animals do'. we can have unnatural animals. you say we do. gay is unnatural. they cannot produce young, and therefore are an evolutionary no no. they are not natural. this does not mean, however, that it is wrong to be gay, or that there should be any negative views against them. or indeed that they should be treated differantly. a pack of animals will drive off one born albino, who will often die. gay's are not a danger to our pack- society- and should be treated as what they are- human. re marriage. denying them to right to marriage is expressly stating that their love is not as valid as male/female love, also that they are second class citizens who do not deserve what 'normal' people get. it should be established as thus, and stated clearly so. we (the ones in power) are so disgustingly set in their ways, they cannot see the clear and undeniable truth. there is no reason gay people should not be treated exactly the same as normal people, ever, except possibly when it comes to the more complicated issues al involving children, ie adoption, sperm donation, etc.

    1%  Voted for by Bob the Elder, tieed.
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  • Back To Religion

    The USA was formed because being of people being perscuted by religion. (At least that is what we are told) People who are being perscuted in other countries flee those countries to come here and be from perscution. This is a country that prides itself on the freedom of religion. "One big melting pot" To use religion as a reason againest homosexual marriage is unconstitutional. We have the freedom to persue our own happiness. Not being allowed to persue our own happiness is also unconstitutional. I dont agree with a lot of peoples points of veiw on what makes them happy, but its not my life. For example I do not dream about having a big huge white wedding with everyone I know there. But this will not stop me from showing up to a wedding like this, if it makes that person happy. Futhermore, natural or unnatural what goes around comes around. Those who are perscuting againest the homosexuals will one day be perscuted againtest. It doesnt really matter what animals do or dont do.

    Humans are animals even I will admit that, but animals have also been know to eat their own shit and lets face it, not many of us are willing to do that.

    As humans we are believed to have a higher intelligence and part of that higher intelligence is for tolerance. Tolorant to that which we might nessassarily believe in. It doesnt really matter what you think is right or wrong it is really a question of what you are willing to tolorate. People are afraid that homosexuality will become contagious. Well I hate to tell you this but you are either homosexual or not homosexual, its not really something that will take hold and become a trend just because the marriage is allowed.

    Someone in here also said that gays will get married just to have the rights of being married. What about the straight people that get married to immigrants just so they can keep their greencard? Why hasnt this been made illegal yet?

    Just some thoughts

    N

    1%  Voted for by Sunflower Kisses, spanner.
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  • Biblical ref: If a man lies with a male. . .

    Biologically not natural.

    Biblical ref: "If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall be put to death, their blood is upon them." Leviticus 20:13

    Ironic, a gay man still seeks a hole for self gratification.

    Voted for by Mary O.
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  • Instincts and animals

    It would be easier; if you all just clicked my profile and read through my previous posts.------but,....here goes. Evolution is theory and an illogical one at that. The catholic church is not important. All denominations suck. And God is God. The Son is the Son. Humans ARE above the animals and there are much better theories in the creation field, that explain things so much better, that evolution begins to look silly. Once you dig into it, logical science begins to appear. I study genetics as well.-----I mean this in the pollitest possible way; Look at my previous posts before you start repeating the same arguments, I and some others have already addressed, in earlier threads. Patient reading and re-reading almost always makes you second guess what you are about to write. I follow a rule to read important comments twice through, at least.

    Voted for by frndofyaweh.
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  • You don't have to

    You don't have to PROVE that being gay is wrong... It just is... That is all there is to it

    Voted for by joshuada.
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  • Right or Wrong

    In accordance with what the beginner of this topic said; yes, because it's in the Bible. That's why some people think being homosexual is wrong. Well, not exactly, I'll clarify it in a second here. But basically, Christians think killing is wrong because it's in the Bible. Muslims think refusing to observe Ramadan(sp) is wrong because it's in the Quran. There isn't such a thing as right or wrong, just what people think of things. In our society, slavery is wrong. In Roman society, a society that was truly great during its time, slavery was fine. Right and wrong don't really exist, it's all out opinions. You can't honestly prove to someone that murder is wrong; you just THINK it's wrong to end human life because that's what your society brings you up with. In fact, societies have been doing that for so long, that now some people are literally incapable of killing because they believe it to be so incrediblly 'wrong'.

    Back to what I was saying about being homosexual being wrong in the Bible; it isn't. The act of homosexuality is considered a sin, but having a homosexual mind isn't wrong at all by their standards. There are just a lot of Christians that don't know enough about their own religion to realise this.

    Voted for by Afdsadkasdfs.
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