Why are hardcore, dikey, "all men are pigs', leather bound, feminazis always in my face?
I am not chauvinistic, and I have been a supporter for womens rights.
Yet, when I tell women that it's ok to show off there bodies, and be sexy,
they get all offensive and tell me that she doesn't need to show off her body to be sexy.
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i am female but...i agreeand i find this amusing...you remind me of a real close friend of mine and28% Voted for by ohsweetie2788, Liberation of Sense, Mujtaba H Zaidi, Emotions, -TheLoneWolf-. (7 total)
I have to say that he is not chavanistic but he does seem that way at times.
people are right in saying that a woman doesn't have to show off her body to be sexy but if she does show off her body then that shows her confidence and makes her all the more sexy in my opinion...so i am on your side i guess. -
It depends...I think that it depends on the woman.20% Voted for by scarlet screams, Socrates, -TheLoneWolf-, eighteight, RebelRebel.
Most woman who DO show off their sexiness are doing it mostly for themselves (me included). If they feel sexy on the inside, they like to show it on the outside. But if you're a woman, and that just isn't your thing, I don't think that she should feel obligated at all to make herself look more attractive or sexy. Each woman has her own nitch, and if she feels that something is going outside her comfort level, she should be fine not to participate in it. But for those woman who want to show off what they have, go for it! -
I guess we should just please everyone else...16% Voted for by London Calling, eighteight, RebelRebel, AthenaWisdom.
Why is it that so much of this issue focuses on other peoples' perception? Should I dress sexy to impress? Or will he think I'm slut? As a society in general we tend to dress for other people.
How about PLEASING OURSELVES FOR A CHANGE!!
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Sexual AttractivenessFrom a man's point of view, one who loves women and enjoys sex, more is often less.12% Voted for by Don Juan Amante, petethemeat, eighteight.
Clothing which covers and yet shows enough of the figure beneath to spark interest can be very sexy and interesting. Showing too much can arouse someone sexually but it takes the beautiful mystery out of unwrapping or imagining unwrapping a woman's naked beauty. I am more fascinated by a woman who is not showing so much that it seems all she is depending on to attract a man is her body.
Many other qualities than bare flesh are attractive to a man, confidence, humor, soft femininity of demeanor. Sex appeal is much more than naked flesh. -
"Beauty is in the eye...""...of the beholder", Is true.Voted for by frndofyaweh.
My wife is sexy to me, but she rarely wears a dress lots of make-up or revealing apparel. That is by her own choice.
I find the attraction in the natural beauty of a woman and her spirit.
A woman like my wife; she is a confident and successful, career minded, mother of two.
Better at it, than I ever could be.
Her confidence in who she is is the attraction. The things I find "sexy" about her.
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I don'tVoted for by acresofhope.
Well, I really don't need to show off my body to be sexy. In fact, I feel more attractive with more clothes on. I feel naked in a swimsuit, so I get one that covers my chest and wear cut-offs no shorter than just above my knee. Like I said, I just wouldn't feel comfortable showing off everything.
As for those women...they probably think you want to drool over them like a piece of meat. Most women don't like that, because it makes them feel as if you think of them as an object there for your pleasure and not a person. Not that I'm saying that's what you do, just trying to give a little insight.
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...Voted for by Neros Decay.
maybe those women are taking what youre saying as a veiled way of telling them they need to show off their bodies to look appealing?
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Hmm...I don't think you NEED to show off your body to be sexy -Voted for by Uhs Feth Malorn.
some people show them off and just look self-conscious. Confidence is sexy, and bodies help. -
Easy on the EyeWhat should be understood about feminism is that it aims for equality across the sexes. You asked for women to show more skin, which is work (shaving legs, wearing the more uncomfortable bra, stressing over what to wear, spending hours at the gym, walking in shoes that destroy feet, etc), and you asked that without offering that men should be held to the same painful or burdensome standard.Voted for by eighteight.
If you obviously don't spend hours at the gym, don't have good hygiene or don't dress decently (which are the three basic and FEW standards for male sexiness), your feminazi friends have a right to call you a chauvinistic pig. If you do meet the FEW male standards for sexiness, you would still be judged a pig, but you would be allowed to have some human qualities.
Your best bet would have been to start shaving your pits and get working on your unibrow (and the gym, clothes shopping, bench pressing, soap buying and using...), or to have never requested your friends to show skin. -
I've given up.I've just simply given up trying to impress other people. If it's not the men, it's the women calling me a slut or a skank. If it's not the women, it's the men cat calling or thinking I'm easy.Voted for by Oral Fixation.
Jeans and a sweatshirt for me.
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