First of all I dont believe in love. So why be with some one right? Thats my question, one is very much in love, the other doesnt belive but she'll say it anyway. she doesnt use him she really likes him, he want her forever , she doesnt think it will stay this way for long.
She like the way things are going, but doesnt need the seriousness.
Is it unfair to him if she continues this, because there is no one better.
by better i mean there is no one else in the world she would rather be with, but this is not exactly the fairy tle she wants?
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Depends how longVoted for by mprinz.
It is unfair, but it is essentially that something is not being communicated between the two. It actually sounds exactly like the situation I'm in. I want more out of the relationship but my partner is not in need of more seriousness at the moment. I believe there are insecurities on both sides that need to be worked through. On the one hand the serious person probably needs a little more self-confidence and the less serious person probably needs to have more faith (trust).
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...no matter what, it's not going to be a "faery tale", i'm sorry to ruin that fantasyVoted for by Dirty and Broken.
second of all, everyone should believe in love-i've found that the ones who don't are usually ones who have been hurt and don't trust anymore....you need to trust to really live
third, don't say "i love you" if you don't mean it.... -
not NICE!well, i beleive in LOVE.. firstVoted for by lake of whispers.
i beleive that love isn't always perferct or a fairy tale.
second if you're not too serious then why staying with him. i see it selfish.
if you'd leave him one day and he's risking to have a pain cause he is in love with you, then live him sooner instead of letting things grow.
because as much as you'd stay as much as he'd love you..
second.. LOVE is a 'mobile' feeling.. you may think you don't love him, but then realise you do.. works in the other sense too..
so before you say you don't just make sure..
sometimes you don't cause you can't see the other person , and the things he does..
and you could be too busy collecting stones, while you have a dimond..
third...
if you're convinced that it is not love.. or it is little love but not THE BIG LOVE, then leave him, be honest..
BUT...
you could regret
one day
because having one person that loves you for the one you are, is a real gift.
and if you do not beleive in love...
you must beleive that love is good care a true feeling..
please if you don't love don't saéy that you love him..
so ugly..
just feel it, or leave him..
good luck
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Kiern
Sounds like the story of my life!! I think people should do what they believe to be right.Please register or login to comment! It's totally free