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Dating because of looks

Do people only go after others for their looks???


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    There are some people who go after someone only for their looks, but anyone who says this isn't an issue at all is lying. Attraction is an important aspect of a relationship, and whether they're a supermodel or a fat slob that you've gotten to know and fall in love with, seeing them and being with them and being intimate with them arouses you, otherwise you may was well just be friends.

    I for one probably "go after", as in go out of my way to talk to at a party or bar or something, because of looks. While it is very likely that the girl I wouldn't look twice at could turn out to be 10x more compatible than the girl I can't stop staring at, but why should it be MY place to initiate a conversation with them over the one I noticed? Upon walking in, the only thing I'm basing things on is sight. So I should say "I'm so much DEEPER than this. I'm going to talk to the homely one instead, just BECAUSE I'm deep." Then I wouldn't be giving the other girl a chance either.

    Now, actions help out too. Maybe as I walk over to this stunning girl I notice she's acting like a snob to somebody, and the so-so girl starts swinging around on a chandelere or something? WELL, let me tell you....The tables will have turned!

    100%  Voted for by Weydon, CrazyRebel.
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