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what is friend

So what is friend? Can we really depend on friend? So far almost all people that i knew made me disappointed. People are always changing. Friend today, maybe not stay as a friend, even becomes an enemy next month or next year. Do we need to adapt with the other to get friend? Is it more important to keep our life principals and just be ourselves?

Can we trust our friend? The one that will stab your back is your friend. The one that will cheat your money is your friend. The one that will hurt you the most is your friend too. It’s just impossible for the outsider to do it to you. People say it always depend on people that every person is different. But basically most human are egoist, so they will always put themselves first before anything else.

So far, I know that person with less friends or a loner, are usually more mature in their way of thinking and attitude. They already felt the pain and faced all their problems mostly by themselves. Their minds are always changing to keep evolve over time. Where people in general are stop to revolutionize the minds since they are already in their comfort zones, which make them, satisfied enough with their condition.
So is it better to become a loner or an outgoing guy/girl? What I meant by a loner is someone, who has a few friends and more family oriented. A loner has friend, who are more into “mind”. A loner is seem to have no friend but it’s because he/she just don’t like to hang out too often and like a small circle of friend.  An outgoing guy is seem to have so many friends. They often have a bunch of people, who always hang out beside them and shout aloud. Is number of friends a definition of success? What is your definition of success? Is it the total money that you have? Is it the number of friends that u have ? is it make you happy?

Give me opinion because I already thought about it for a long time.but I never can find the right answer that can answer my confusion.


  • Great frenship!

    Freind? what is this? for us if we say freind is only the one that we know but it is not the very essense of what we so called freind.A freind is the people that we meet everyday of our life why? because they are the freinds that can teach us and mold us. A freind also is the one that we can run of if we have problems wether it is confidential or not,success or failure and our best freind sometimes can also be our best enemy why? because they are the persons that knows all of our secrets in life. Because as a freind we did not hide something from them or we don't have any secrets.But a good freind also is the one whom we alwalys seek for help because some person acompany you if you have money and if your wealth is already gone your freind also gone from your side because your cannot give their wants in life or you cannot satified them.A great freinship is always their if you are in need and expect nothing from you especially money...

    20%  Voted for by lust, snowwhite2.
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  • Friends to whatever ENDS

    Look if you ask me there are many types of friends. You got your very few best friends in this world. The ones that really respect you and accept you as you are. Then you have your WANT friends. These friends just act the part because they want something from you. Like money, maybe connections, or even if they want to go out with you or something. But as soon as they get what they want they usually don't play the part anymore.

    Then you have your Chat friends. These people are just people who don't really dislike you but have little reason to like you and don't mind telling you secrets behind your back. If it helps them they will pass your secrets without a second thought and yet many people talk to these people every day. These are the people who just fill in the gaps. A mean way to say it is that they would be disposabal. Just to be your friend when none of your really good best friends are around. Really there just there to make noise.

    THen last but not least you have your "Evil" Friends. These people really couldn't care less or hate you any less. These people just act the part to get into your life and make other people dislike you. These people act loyal but as soon as they know one of your secrets suddenly its everywhere. These people will take anything bad about you and spead it like a viris, even if it isn't true.

    But in the end true friends are there for you and respct you and accept you for who you are and arn't.

    But both friends and enimes mold you into what you are today.

    20%  Voted for by Wolf Heart, pnktrky.
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    i like that letter it goes well in sentences. friend, friend hmm i suppose a friend is anyone. well anyone you dont desise, loath, hate or otherwise object to. Friendship is a universal quality, desire for contact, possibly a desire for the continuation of sanity. friendship is indefinable a friend is someone you get along with, and they hopefully get along with you otherwise your friend is likely to be the one with the restraining order against you.

    i do talk a lot of crap. hopefully a little of it is relevant. friends are people who respect you for you.

    20%  Voted for by Defenestra, realfairy.
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  • FRIENDSHIP

    FEAR AND HURT ARE PART OF BEING HUMAN NEVER WALL YOUR SELF UP REMEMBER ONLY THE DEAD DON'T HURT.LIFE HURTS SOMETIMES IF YOU CAN'T HURT YOU CAN'T EXPERANCE JOY ITS A YIN YANG THANG SO HANG IN THEIR WANT ANY MORE CLESHAYS I GO TO AA I GOT A MILLION LIFE IS TO GOOD TO GIVE UP ON I ONLY HAVE TO LOOK AT MY DAUGHTER TO FEAL ALL THE JOY IN THE WORLD YOUR DAY WILL COME TOO BUT YOU HAVE TO BE BRAVE ENUF TO TAKE IT REMEMBER FRIENDS ARE PEOPLE TOO SOME TIMES THAY ---- UP TOO I HOPE I HELPED IN SOME SMALL WAY

    Voted for by bob2314.
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  • Friendship

    A friend is someone who sees your flaws but still accepts you anyway. Someone you can act like an idiot with, who always tells the truth even if it might hurt you, someone you dont mind crying in front of, who knows you more deeply then you even know yourself. Don't let past hurt make you give up on friendship

    Voted for by Sapphire2589.
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  • Friend

    A friend is someone who shows respect for your decisions, does not know how to judge you, and someone who shows you the love that you show them.

    Voted for by Darkness Chiquita.
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  • Friends
    Friends
    A friend is someone who is always there
    Not necessarily in body, but in spirit
    Someone you can call anytime
    No matter what they may be doing
    Someone who offers themselves unconditionally
    Never asking for something in kind,
    Someone who wishes for you a life of satisfaction and joy
    Someone who will go to the end of the world for you
    And return if the reason no longer exists and you are now safe
    A friend is someone who shares your morals
    Someone who identifies with your choices in life
    And shares your mind when all others see only skin
    Someone who can look into your eyes and see the truth
    And yet never judge the folly of your ways
    A friend is someone you can love
    And grow with that love
    Always knowing they will love you back
    A friend is just that indeed ........ a friend.
    Voted for by lansing.
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