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Why when a person hears the word Gay/Homosexual they immediately think Sex?

Seriously people! why do you always assume that when schools and people are educating others about homosexual people, you start thinking the way they have sex? does anyone realise that they are most likely talking about love? love lust sex, what the difference right? why dont you tell me? it would be fasinating to know why love is exchanged with sex once a homosexual couple come it to the conversation. So tell me, is it impossible for a wo/man to love another wo/man?

kaz


  • I don't think any of it's wrong.

    I'm happy being bi. There's nothing wrong with it. Sex isn't what matters. It's what you feel with the person you are with. Most people think being a "homo" is wrong. But it's not. Some people don't believe that, that's how you're born they think its a choice. It's not a choice it's how most people are. If they don't like it they will have to get over it. 3 out of 7 house families have a "homo" in their midst.

    22%  Voted for by FaceDown, Epsilina.
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    Probably because of the wording if you are referring to love you would use the term homophilia while the term homosexual refers to sexuality.

    22%  Voted for by petethemeat, looking4realtruth.
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  • because some people are just plain horny

    the unconcious mind is a dirty, dirty thing. perhaps these folks are playing out their own fantasies and/or curiosities. although, i don't think they'll admit to themselves.

    Voted for by sekmhet eye of ra.
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  • love and sex are NOT the same thing

    YES it is possible for a man to love another man, or a woman to love another woman, without sex being involved. IN FACT.. Jesus tells us to do just that! and YES, it is possible, and unfortunately all-too-common, to have sex without love, which is a BAD Idea in my book! that leads to all kinds of problems. So, next time you take a sex partner, be they the same or opposite sex, ask yourself...DO I TRULY LOVE THIS PERSON, AND IS THAT LOVE RECIPROCATED? if the answer is no to either question, you're better off masturbating.

    Voted for by NeferMaatNetjer.
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  • Sex

    Because that is what entails.

    Voted for by TeChNoWC.
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  • nothing is impossible

    Nothing is impossible and everything is plausable didn't someone say that...and love is just love. Hell, I have never gotten any change back perhaps we all have to pay in full, straight, gay, bi, or A sexual... may be the price of true love.

    Voted for by thinking.
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  • Hmm

    Homophobic people like to make gays out to be sex obsessed freaks. Let me just put this for the record...it's not just gays hun. And it's not everyone either. Stereotypes are the reason, and how you were raised.

    Voted for by Epsilina.
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  • Yes some things are not possible

    In my own opinion I believe you can love another man and or women but not the way you are thinking. I believe you can love them if they are like family or a really good friend but not for a couple thing. Please take no offense to this. I just dont think people can love each other as much as they could that way if they were not gay. I mean nothing by that. But not every one thinks that when people are whatever how are they having sex. I do believe you can have sex without loving the person about I wouldnt do that in my book. Love is love. You can believe in it or you dont. It just depens on the person. Like some people have said befor me.People have dirty minds they are just trying to picture in there minds what or how you guys would have sex and so on. I hope that really helps out you problem or whatever.

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