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Not all guys are Idiots

  • Not all of us guys are idiots!

    I started this debate to sortof clear the air. I know that most people realize that not all guys want to get into bed with females and that is all we worry about but I just got into a big arguement with three different females and they all believed that guys are idiots. They all thought we are all the same and only think with one thing... Our dicks... I think that there are actually only a very few percent of guys who are idiots out there. It is those few percent of guys who rape, don't care about females feelings, just want to have sex, and so on... In the defence of most guys...

    1. It is actually pretty hard for us to show our feelings. Most guys are not generally as emotional as most females and so when we don;t act upset it is not nessisarily we aren't it is just that we don;t know how to show it. Also, thanks to movies and such a lot of guys seem to think it isn't manly to show their feelings.

    2. When we do things to upset you they are mostly not on purpose and when we don't appologize it is because we are not aware that we actually did something. Telling us "well, you should know what is wrong" isn't going to help because we don;t know what is wrong.

    3. And now a point to guys, Showing you care/love someone is not a bad thing. No matter what your guy friends say spending a lot of time with your girlfriend is not bad. Sure, you shouldn't let her dictate your life but you should show her you care about her. Another thing, no matter what is said, being in touch with your feelings is not a bad thing... I know that some people might be like wow... he is "gay" but being sensative will get you a lot father in life than being a jerk. All the manly "rules" such as you are not allowed to cry is bullshit also, everyone has shit days so just be real to yourself.

    I guess what I am trying to say is, Girls -- Men are not all jerks, only a few percent are, the rest of us really care about you even if we don't nessisarily know how to show it. and guys -- Don;t be afraid to show you care about things. It is not being weak, it is being true to yourself. Crying and being more intouch with your feelings (Sorta showing the female side that all guys have no matter if they wanna believe it or not)is something that is not a bad thing. If we all did that a little more the world would not be so full of hate.

    41%  Voted for by prettygirl86j, Dalegend, Weydon, a new beginning, Alex2021.
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  • All girls are not nice and victims

    Just wanted to add that HAHA

    I mean, as long as we're on the topic. I know an even proportion of nice guys/jerkoffs that cheat and treat girls like shit as I do chill girls/slut-bitches that cheat and are vindictive. People are good and people are bad. The gender has little to do with it.

    33%  Voted for by CrazyRebel, Weydon, Shandilliahosen, Alex2021.
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  • true, not all guys are idiots...

    but those who are give the rest of us a bad name. sad part is the idiots aren't even a majority. decent guys outnumber them by a huge margin, but somehow the jerks are always the ones who get the limelight, by acting like...idiots. Men who act like thay have a brain, a mother, and a soul...nobody pays much attention to them.

    16%  Voted for by NeferMaatNetjer, Alex2021.
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  • About time!

    Finally someone is talking about this! Thankyou.

    Voted for by Latet Artifex.
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