There are 3 choices, 8 votes for KissKissFry's debate

What is fair in a relationship?

would you let your boyfriend talk on the phone with another girl....? would you talk on the phone with a guy other than your boyfriend....? is it ok to have a guy best friend and have a boyfriend....? is it ok to have a girl best friend hand have a girlfriend....?


  • trust?

    Well there needs to be trust in a relationship right? If you really love him, you've got to trust that he's not going to chase another girl. =D

    37%  Voted for by Elscripto, Weydon, petethemeat.
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  • all's fair in love and war

    Let him explore his options, there is a chance he might leave you which is good because it wasn't meant to be anyway or there is a chance that he will find out that he's got the best there is which will solidify the relationship. If you refuse to test the relationship it will not be real but forced and fake.

    37%  Voted for by happysassycassie, Weydon, petethemeat.
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  • Of course!

    That's just silly. People are people. What if your boyfriend/girlfriend is bi but now is just exclusive to you? They can't have ANY friends because they CAN be attracted to other genders? What if they've been friends with attractive people for years but it's very platonic--now they have to break things off?

    Have a little trust. If it doesn't work out, the person was shit and not looking for what you're looking for anyway. Sucks. Try again.

    25%  Voted for by Weydon, petethemeat.
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