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is true love rare?

Though it may be rare, it “is” just the same. I have loved and lost. I have loved and gained. I have learned that every relationship I have had has been practice for this, most undenyable true love. For, if one does not believe in true love, one has not yet experienced true love. So, I say, how can one not believe in something they have never experienced? On the other end of that paradox, if one does not believe in something, how will one ever find it? From my personal experience, I was engaged to be married. Two years we dated. Six months we were engaged. When it ended I said I will never again open my heart. I will never love again. A year went by during which, in desperation, I frantically searched for a woman to fill the chasm that was left in the wake of this failed union. I looked for love in every womans face I crossed. I looked for love on line. I met women on line. I had encounters with four different women, all of which were purely physical in nature. I met a girl from PA who, after having sex with me once, was telling me she loved me. For the few months we were together she would tell me over and over that she loved me. I would just look upon her and say nothing. Long story short, she was no good for me and I, no good for she. She eventually faded into the background.(That’s another story) So, that brings me to my newest adventure. I have learned that one must give in searching. One must surrender to the cosmos. Whence I learned this and surrendered to the cosmos, there she was.(the point of my ramblings) My sweet soul mate. Time did stop when I first saw her, as it does every time we kiss. True love is: Two people who feel the same love for each other. True love is: A union of body, mind, spirit and psyche. If love can conquer all, true love can do anything. So, if this is just my imagination, let it go on forever more. For, in six months I have composed three full length CDs for my love. The inspiration she fills me with to over flowing keeps coming. I keep creating. Art. Music. Poetry. If this not be true love, what is? -MAAKU


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  • I agree that True love is rare, yet obtainable

    I believe that there is true love, its just whether the other person is willing to believe in it as well, whether they are willing to work it out. So basically I’m saying that if more people were open to true love, it wouldn’t be so rare.

    17%  Voted for by poetryfix, Carino, leticia45331, B Chandler, Hekate. (7 total)
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  • I believe that true love is extremely rare.

    If you think about it, TRUE love is never hurtful. If you really think about it, anything you do harms something or someone directly or indirectly. If it is TRUE love there won’t be any breaking up or lying to each other or anything that could hurt the other person in any way.

    9%  Voted for by Kevin, Carino, leticia45331, B Chandler.
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  • Believe it!

    Of course true love is real. I believe that we are all destined for one person in life. true love is definately real.. Some people ask, “well what if my true love gets killed somehow?” No doesn’t work like that, there is always that one person no matter how different or odd it may seem to be, that will love you for the rest of your life, time is all that is needed, just wait and it will happen!

    7%  Voted for by Carino, leticia45331, ohsweetie2788.
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  • I Don't Think So

    People say there is their one and only soul mate somewhere out there, or that they have found their one and only. But honestly, don’t you think if they had lived thousands of miles away from this supposed soul mate they would have found themself another “soul mate”? There are thousands of “one and only”s out there for almost everyone.

    7%  Voted for by ahug4me08, SodomyScythe, Scrap.
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  • is true love rare?

    i think true love is well done, and not rare.

    4%  Voted for by Madame Yes, ohsweetie2788.
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  • true love

    is not rare…you have to realize when you find it though which is the hard part for some people.

    Ash

    4%  Voted for by ohsweetie2788, selfincontact.
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  • No Faith

    You can’t take the statement “Everyone is detined for someone” and put all your hope into it, believe it or not we choose our own soulmates, we cant tell the future so therefore faith cant possibly work without actions. Something wont come from nothing. You must look yourself for your true lover and there is no “destined” its who you choose to accept as your true love.

    4%  Voted for by blind-illusion, Scrap.
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  • Our society leaves no space

    True love in our present society is there, it is just that society leaves no space for it. Everyone is so engrossed in their own affairs they care not for the other. And if you ever do find it, it is as hard to obtain as anything else as all feel to keep to themselves, thus leaving you with the option to hurt or be hurt. In other words, to obtain true love, you got to go against the norm, and if the other party does not feel in to it or feel like going the extra mile with you. Then you are going to have to be content with what you have and forget or keep dreaming about that lost love. Though when content, you would be happy just dreaming about that love, and your present partner will not get the full you. Though what they do not know will never hurt them. So what i think is that, if your in for a world of hurt and they are willing to go it with you, it is worth it. I say go for it no matter what, or be content with the life you lead, never at 100%. Thanx, bye.

    4%  Voted for by Duana, Mistereddie33.
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  • Go the extra mile.

    Go the extra mile whereever it leads you. Do not be scared of the unknown and of being alone. If your true love is not with you, somewhere along that extra mile she/he will be. So go it alone for a while, and like they say patience is a virtue, you just got to stand strong. Thanx, bye.

    4%  Voted for by Duana, Mistereddie33.
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  • Love is a myth

    what one calls true love tell me is it any different then loving a child? and then tell me what love realy is for if it is the love i see in this world it does not exsist this so called thing of love except for what one cares in a degree for another and to me if u loved all in this world enemies and all then i would believe in this thing called love. when a man kills his wife for love is this love? when one is possessed with it is this love? one must know love before they can truely comment on this subject. and then if they think they know is it real? or is it what they want it to be?

    4%  Voted for by Lady Syndra, ahug4me08.
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  • no such thing

    I don’t believe there is actually such a thing. All there is, is the right combination of factors which create an unusually happy couple. It’s an unrealistic concept that disappoints many when they aren’t able to achieve it.

    4%  Voted for by concrete sky, Duana.
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  • once in a life time

    true love will only ever happen once the vast majority of the population never find it, true love is from the day u met them u never phisically harmed eachother and u get married and u stay with that person till the day u die and u want to be with that person more than anyone else in the world, but of course there will be fighting cuz thats just how life works, how we solve problems, but yeh true love is rare

    4%  Voted for by Duana, chemicalromantic.
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  • True love is rare

    True love has ot be rare. I dont necessarily believe there is one person on the earth for us. there are folks all over the worl in other places who are in arranged marriages, and they end up being happier then us who can look and seek out partners. Anyway. true love has to be built up ond grown but be instantanious at the same time. If you can find a man with that much patience its true love ( no offence guys but think about it, if your willing to put that mucht ime into it… ) any way, thats my little view on it :0)

    Voted for by CandyLand.
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  • Love?

    What is love/true love? And who says you need it?

    I revert back to “the lord and master” Foamy. “i dnt ned to base my existance on the existance of someone else”. In other words I’m ugly and i use my beliefs as a way of saying “actually i didn’t want it in the first place”

    Voted for by EmoVamp.
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  • rare

    true love is rare, and love at first site is basically impossible. i believe in plutanic love for most people, but there’s not usually this head over heals love. cuz when you break up you hate the person…this proves you never loved them

    Voted for by J-Mill-45.
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  • I'm going to have to say I disagree.

    In my beliefs… there is always somebody perfect for you if you are thinking about loving another woman or man. But true love in Jesus isn’t rare and true love in your family and friends… None of that is rare…. That’s just my opinion though… love, Jacky

    Voted for by ahug4me08.
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  • Depraved world is a harsh place for love

    in a corrupted the whole love is patient, love is kind, etc. verses in the bible are honestly hard to follow, the rela question is does love like that even exist anymore? TRUE love is love that God has for us, because it is so pure, as for soulmates, I don’t know, ask God about it, eh?

    Voted for by rksweetpunk.
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  • The Answer is a Stastical One

    And polls are innacurate and unreliable after a certain point.

    Voted for by wbiro.
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  • I Believe in It

    I believe in true love, but I don’t think love is the highest power that runs most people’s lives- social control is- and so most people don’t get the freedom to experience true love. And true love doesn’t exist for everyone as there are conartists and evil people out there who can’t experience true love- now those type or more common and more in control that anyone wants to admit!

    Voted for by Duana.
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  • u never know

    ok im just a kid i belive in it for the single reason that my mother found it . It was not m,y father because she made the same mistake many people wait they marry young and to the wrong person there for it ended in divorce but at the age of 42 she found her true love . my point is it is there but allot of people dont wait for it or miss it

    Voted for by catseyes2468.
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