No, I don’t believe in love at first site. Lust at first sight maybe…but not love. Love is a deep attraction between two people and a commitment towards eachother. At first sight there is none of this. First sight is just a lust, an attraction of looks or body movements.

That’s just what I think though

Love does not magically appear, it has to grow. If it can magically appear at first sight then the senses of the body are useless. Then getting to know someone is not needed. Then compatibility means nothing to a relationship. Then being physically attractive to someone is a thing of the past then. All of these are INCORRECT. You do not fall into love. You fall into infatuation with someone at first, but love grows over time spent with someone. Love has to be watered and cared for or it will wilt and die.

I know that when I saw my fiancee for the first time I knew that he was someone that I could relate to. So yea, I you could say it was love at first sight, but our true love grew after we had started dating. But yea, being the person that I am I believe that anything is possible and if you have enough faith in what you believe in then that is all you need.

i know when i looked at my borfriend the first time i just fell for him immediately and i wanted to get to know him and i wanted to be with him. with just one look at him i knew we were meant to be. and to find out we are, he has propsed to me and i am going to marry him, my first instinct about loving him was right. so love at first sight is an instinct not always right but boy when it is!

_Ash

No. It’s not real. Sometimes when you see someone you can find them extraordinarily beautiful and makes you feel all goofy, and when you get to know them you in fact grow to love them. It can even be a mutual feeling between the two of you the first time you meet eyes. But you can’t really love them without knowing them.

Love at first sight. Yes, indeedy. I love everyone. Conjugal love should take time and serious consideration toward knowing the person who caused your initial attraction. At age 15 my husband loved me at first sight and wouldn’t let me out of his sight. For me it took a little more time. Anyway, we’ve been together ever since; almost 40 years.

love at first site is impossible. Attraction and instinct are possible, but love has a snow ball affect. Somthing u think is love to start out with you keep finding it to grow deeper and deeper, love has no real definition, but love comes from trust, understanding, and patients, not just raw attraction. if love at frist site wasnt taken so seriouls divorce rates wouldnt be so high

I believe in lust at first sight. To look over someone’s physical features and declare love is superficial. You have to know someone in multiple depths to love them

Love is so much more than just looks!!! You cannot get to know a person just by walking by them. You cannot get to know a person just by staring at them. Or at least, I can’t. I don’t know if you have any special powers, but I most definitely don’t. In order to love someone, you have to trust them and to trust a person automatically is not a good idea, in fact, I’ll say this, it’s just stupid. You don’t know anything about the person, yet you trust them? I don’t think so. Trust=love. Walking by a person does not equal trust.

No, not really. I don’t think you can actually feel love for a person you just meet. Maybe lust, but not love. But, what I do believe is taking a second look. I did, and I couldn’t be more happier with that choice. I’m still with him, and we have a long distance relationship. So, instead of taking things fast, take a second and look again.

Of course! Depending on how tune you are you can know someone instantly. If you do not believe me read ‘The Tipping Point’. It’s not that you know them instantly, it’s that you spent your whole life living out particular values, characteristsics, ect, and of course you recognize them when you see them. Plus the way a person lives their life can say everything about that person.

i believe in love a first site 100% because when i met the person i am currently in love with i knew i would want him forever i knew he was ment to be mine i knew we were made for eachother.

Love isn’t something that magically happens, maybe you see someone and say wow, he Looks like a sweet caring guy or girl that might be the one for me, but Love at first sight is impossible, how can one love someone when they havent even spoken to them? or had a chance to try to relate? no its a silly idea that maybe i could love him or her.. no it’s not realistical at all.

To love someone you have to know them. If you’ve only saw them once or twice how can you call that love? you don’t know that person. that person could be a drug abuser, rapist, or worse a murderer. If you say you love someone, learn how to mean it. btw. mystice oceania, you say you believe in love at first sight but when you say you love the person you are with you said “when i met the person i am currently with”.. you MET… you didn’t just see that person you met him, that isn’t love at first sight, thats love at first meet.

Love is the decision to make the welfare of something or someone a priority followed with commitment. The decision may occur instantly. I am sure that most of us have met or seen someone with whom we felt that instant attraction. For most of us, nothing came of it. For a lucky few, it might last for a while. There have been many I could have loved from first sight, but nothing came of them because I was cowardly or they were unresponsive. On the other hand, there were four I loved from the moment I met them. Married one of them.

Andy

But only with food.

Dude, the first time I saw my ex boyfriend I loved him… as FRIEND. I could tell that he would be someone that I needed to get to know. I did… and I fell madly and deeply in love with him. So YES! So happens that I messed things up, but we still love each other. Now we have other people who we both feel strongly about though. So it worked out.

I believe that love at first site is only love from the surface. If someone thinks they are in love when seeing someone for the first times, that love may be structured by only looks and surface appeal. Although falling in love with someone’s words at first site is possible because it is coming from the outside. The first time I fell in love with someone, it was from reading his inner thoughts and poetry that was coming from so deep inside of him, before i even saw what he looked like. But for the most part, I’d say love at first site revolves around looks.

I believe you can love someone without ever seeing them. I believe you can love someone without ever speaking to them.