There are 7 choices, 14 votes for Realistic Nightmare's debate

Sex with best friends

  • Sex With Best Friends!

    Having sex with your best friends, is not a good idea, what so ever..When you have sexw ith them you have a very high risk of losing them afterwars..Especailly if they are with other people! Been there done that..In my experience, just take my advice adn dont do it..Its a horriabe idea.!

    42%  Voted for by Realistic Nightmare, Shamaila Khalid, -TheLoneWolf-, shiny blue wallet, looking4realtruth. (6 total)
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  • Whatever is fun...

    Not that this is necessarily how I've chosen to live my life, but I can easily see the opinion that sex is just another fun thing, and you might as well do it with people and have fun doing it...

    21%  Voted for by Kevin, Sax God, raven shadow 13.
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  • Possible

    It can work. But only in special situations. In my case my best friend is also my mate and lover so it works out perfectly.

    14%  Voted for by Beastial Wench, ostrasized.
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  • Errr
    All I can say is, I am married to my best friend of my entire life! That is why my marriage is so much fun and sex is not a part of it, love is.

    You are supposed to marry your best friend, not have sex with them, but love them and worship them.

    Yes, making love to your spoouse is considered a worshipping of one another.
    Voted for by frndofyaweh.
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  • Depends on what you are comfortable with
    I don't think that there is neccerarly anything wrong with that. I think if you both are comfortable with sex than it's absolutly your decision. I would probably not recommend it, especially if you only want to remain friends but I'm not against it.
    Voted for by Red Death.
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  • It's fun and you dont need to masturbate

    Well I have a friend (maybe not best friend) with whom my interests and hers dont go much outside of having sex. When either of us are seeing someone then we stop but if both are single then we are there for each other whenever either of us gets the urge. We always use contraception and there are no emotions in it for us just fun. For us it is like masturbationxxx and it means i dont need to use pornography or masturbate for those urges, both of which far less natural experiences.

    Voted for by Sax God.
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  • no
    if a long established friendship meets sex, the odds of that friendship staying in tact are not in your favor. i am aware that there is a percentage that maintains strength, but am also aware of the larger percentage of those that don't.
    if friendship was recently established, you have a better chance at keeping things copacetic on all fronts. don't let anyone convince you that there are no ties or expectations in this situation. it's blatant bullshit. sex is intimate and very revealing, it matters.
    maybe if everything were right out there on the table; both people entirely and unashamedly honest with each other from the get go, no matter the reactions, it would work out. honesty is important. always.

    personally, sleeping with my guy friends has not been a good idea.

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