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Have you ever thought that normality is neither Homosexual or Heterosexual?

so what if it is neither heterosexuality or homosexuality that is not in the least bit normal?


  • Well

    It depends on what you mean by normal. You can go to one extreme and say that normal is the most natural course of life to take in order to further sustain itself. A sort of "natural order" or something. Or you can take the other extreme and say nothing is really normal, which begs the question: Why create the word?!

    Personally I lean towards the latter definition, because it all depends on the context of the word. If put properly, I'd agree that one wouldn't be incorrect in saying that heterosexuality is normal.

    But I don't think that normal, at least in that sense, implies what is morally correct. In fact, in the same concept that would properly define homosexuality as abnormal, it would also imply that marriage is abnormal. Hair styles are not normal in a certain degree. Kissing is not normal in the sense of what our lips and mouths were "designed" for. Being born with some sort of physical deformity can be called abnormal. This doesn't mean anything. It's just a trait or something you're choosing to do that has no affect on anything.

    40%  Voted for by Weydon, KnivesTheGuardian, Makessenseright, hugmonky.
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  • Degrees

    I am of the opinion that most people are bisexual to some degree. Let me give you an example. When I was younger I would swear up and down that I was gay, I didn't like guys like that. And then I met this man, who, while we never had a relationship, kind of knocked me off of my feet. For me, it was all about finding the right person to be attracted to. Since then there's only been one other man I felt that way about. For the most part, I still prefer girls. I like to think that we become interested in people due to who they are, not due to their genitalia. And certainly there are quite a few people who are completely one way or the other. But I believe that most are attracted to others based on something besides gender, but despite that still keep to the defined boundaries of society.

    30%  Voted for by Kazrith, Augusta Agrippina, ButerfliSpirit.
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  • NORMAL?

    *Normal-Conforming with, adhering to, or constituting a norm, standard, pattern, level, or type *Normality-the quality or state of being normal Correct me if i'm rong but, normality, pertaining to human kind, is what one is used to… in the exact way one is used to it; thus, a chilled brought up in a homosexual inviorment's idea of the ‘normal’ sexuality would differ from that of the same comeing from a strait home, or that of a bisexual enviroment, or that of an a-sexual family, or, also from the idea of ‘normal’ that a chiled from a mixed sexuality home might have. who's to say what is normal , or for that matter, what is abnormal when every one's idea of the word normality is slightly different? Many of my aquantinses feal that every person has just a touch of bisexuality (with the exclusion of those who are a-sexual)and that most people just refuse to admit, or they have not relized, that they feel atraction to both genders, i am personaly strait…as far as i know, but I can defenatly see were they are comeing from. Bisexuality is normal for them. Consitering they’re thyory, would bisexuality be the ‘normal’ sexuality? I sopose that you could take this from a democratic point of view, and decide that normal is what most people are genraly used to, but then you'd have to take a poll and make sure every one voted correctly, and how many people do not eaven know their own sexuality? how many people would lie about their sexuality dew to pride? this has been the thoughts of mary... thank you for your time edited by mary with the help of over stimulateing caffine

    Voted for by Flawed perfection.
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  • If Neither, Then What?

    If you are saying that neither homosexuality or heterosexuality is normal then are you implying that nonsexuality (abstinance) is? Or othersexuality (sex with chickens, horses or aliens) is? What it boils down to is not what we think is normal, but rather what we are fulfilled in doing.

    Voted for by david13.
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  • People as People

    It is normal, in the fact that the majority of people are straight or gay, and not bisexual. Being sexual makes more sense, in a way, if that's what you're saying. Just liking people as people? I think that's what you mean.

    Voted for by Manic Black.
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