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Why change for the worst in the name of love?

Why do people change for the worst in the name of love? If the one who says they love you wants you to change something about yourself do they really love you?


  • I wouldn't

    I wouldn't change for the worse for someone that claims to love me. for example, If I had a bad habbit of drinking too much or something like that and they wish you would stop, that is a change for the better and that I feel is fine. But lets say your trying to make something of yourself following a dream then they rip you away from it. Why put up with that? They should accept you for who you are and not try to change the goods in you.

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  • Love/Change..

    Lately i've actually been thinking about this topic.. As unknown element says if it's for something as drinking that's fine. I was seeing this guy who said there were things about me, which prevented us from being together. It hurt because that was they way i was, though i could change..(confused) but then could it be a test. Love is all confusing and nothing makes sense. Sometimes out of desperation we try to change for the ones we love (love is blind) and there are some people who would do anything. I think it really depends on what exactly they are asking you. It could also leave you in a very confused state, especially if the person you love threatens to leave you.. But just be yourself, and if that's truly you, you deserve to find someone who will be patient, understanding and most importantly "accept all of you" just the way you are, only because you deserve that.

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