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Make you remember that it is realVoted for by ThisEndUp.
Emotions hurt period. Our psychological connection with our emotions and feelings is what makes us human. When you place expectations on other people, place trust on other people, and basically create your world around someone else, you are bound to get some feelings hurt. It's just natural.
Lester Fontecha
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To FeelVoted for by ostrasized.
To see beauty in life You must also see the pain To feel love You must know the feeling of hatred When you get over pain You are stronger And smarter because of it
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Weydon
April 15, 2006
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April 15, 2006
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Love
It's four simple letters, but it is in 'Love' that every emotion can truly be shown. When you bind yourself to another in 'Love' everything lays out on the table. All faults, all strengths. It is in this that most people find comfort. Knowing that they do not have to be perfect in order to not be alone. To know that this person will stand by them no matter the situation. So how can something so beautiful, so powerful cause pain? In my experiences and others alike it is because the party involved or the parties depending, believe they are in 'Love' but truly are not yet mature enough (This implies nothing to age, I refer to maturity here as a sense of self understanding. Though this generally comes with age and life experiences) to understand what they are truly feeling. Most times one or both are just experiencing a form of 'Lust'. Which will eventually fade, causing a need for something new and exciting. A change of scene. The other possibility here is that one or both have fallen in 'Love' with what ever is 'New' about this person. It generally seems to me that with every person you meet you will find something 'New'. Weather it be their style, their attitude, their way of thinking, or all of the above. It is this 'New' that you fall in 'Love' with, not the person. As time progresses though the 'New' will fade, or the 'Lust' will burn out and one of the persons will end the relationship. As the relationship draws to an end, one if not both are left with what seems to be a unfillable hole in themselves. A pain no words can describe. It is no fault of either person but it still occurs. To me it seems this is because you have lost the comfort you found in the other person. You have lost the sense of stability and support you had with them, or thought you had with them. Which leaves one or both persons feeling completely stripped bare, and questioning what they did wrong. Brooding on the subject never helps either. The more you cross and crisscross how or why the relationship ended. The more and more confused, unstable, and hurt you become. There is never solely one person at fault for a relationship ending. Even though you swear to have been in 'Love' with each other, step back and look at the relationship. Look at how you two acted together, was it truly 'Love'? Or did you fall into a blinding 'Lust' or fall in 'Love' with whatever 'New' things this person brought? If you truly believe that you were in 'Love'. Then there is no answers, that sadly is another beautifully evasive quality of 'Love'. In conclusion it is my opinion, that 'Love' hurts because you have lost something that no one else but that person could give you. It is like when you lose your childhood blanket no one can replace it and it hurts that you no longer have it. Thus you will hold all the memories forever all the good and bad. All the joy and pain. Slowly though just like with the blanket the pain will fade and you will have learned from that scenario and become a better person, and one day when you are ready and the other person is to you will be able to truly 'Love'.June 15, 2006
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IT HURTS!
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