There are 7 choices, 13 votes for Dienush's debate

Love without trust?

  • Love

    There are many different types of love. Some like the love of chocolate or the love for a baby do not require trust. Romantic love does require trust, why would people be so hurt and shocked when they find out that there boy/girlfriend has cheated on them. I think that adult love does require trust, but it can be and often is misplaced trust. Thats where the pain and heartache come in.

    30%  Voted for by Makessenseright, Weydon, OrodrethC, Supanis.
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  • I don't know...

    Love isn't trust. You can, for example, love your 1 month old kid without trusting him/her to leave alone or stay next to a big fire or such things. If that is possible, why would it not be so with older people? On the other hand, love may make us empathize more, which could possibly lead to a subjective kind of trust. But I do think that love without trust is possible. Painful, but possible.

    23%  Voted for by Dienush, Supanis, CrazyRebel.
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  • To Love or Trust first?

    It is almost a epical battle between the two, being such a thin line both can draw. Do we love first and trust later or trust first and love later?. these two can cause uncertainties between each other bounderies, the only answer is through your trail and error process. everything else is others opinions and views and we all know, what might work for someone else will not definitaly work for you equally.

    15%  Voted for by Supanis, ostrasized.
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  • Love without trust..... what a question to answer

    Love without trust is no love at all. Love is based on trust. The minuite your lover has cheated or especially falls for another that person doesn't love you and that trust destroys and love also destroys because they goes together.Or maybe the person is using one of them to fullfil the void that lives in them.

    Voted for by rosepoet.
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  • Love Without Trust

    Love without trust is nothing. Personaly I dont think that you can truely love a person if you cant trust them. It can be an illusion or a crush but not true love. If you can trust a preson then you cant have a meanful relationship with that person. Its just two people that are in with each other. Nothing more.

    Voted for by LostWithoutYou14.
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  • Soooooooo important
    To love someone and put your heart on the line is to trust them with your very being. If they break that trust the bond can never be the same, yes people try but forgeting is near impossible. And your heart will always know. The scars will always be felt no matter how silent they seem tainting the relationship for the rest of its life.

    Someone asked which comes first trust or love, I would say if you are sensible you find trust first.
    Voted for by Applehead.
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  • romantic loves differs from the love of a child
    You need to have trust to fully love someone romantically. But, as far as loving a child goes, you don`t need to fully trust them to love them. People may break your trust but everyone deserves a second chance and just because one person messed up, doesn`t mean the next one will.
    Voted for by ifyooonleeknew.
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