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Replacing Mrs. Right

What if you founf Mrs. Right and then they leave you? What happens then? How do you replace Mrs. Right?

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  You can't make him move on. Only he can. The longer he takes to accept it, the longer time it will take to move on. But time will work.

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  • whatever1189
    July 13, 2006
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    Ya.... but

    well, he wont ever think that there are any other girls in the world and is constantly asking me to come back. What can i do to kind of aid him into finding someone else?
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    Weydon
    July 14, 2006
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    Try turning him down everytime...oh wait, you did! This is up to him. You can't feel guilty, it's not your fault. He will get over you with time, but it's just going to take him a LONG time because he's being almost immature about it. But, maybe I'm being too harsh, I was young once (5 years ago). Tell him you're sorry but it's over, and maybe recomend he actively tries to get over you. Ask him to just try not calling for two weeks. Let him know that when he is upset and thinks about things that were and things he wish will still be, REALIZE that's not the case. Identify it. MOURN these things because they are LOST (ie they are not coming back). It is sad. He is right for feeling sad. But that doesn't change the situation. Things will get better, he will become happier than ever sometime. The timing of this is up to him. But again, I'm not really an expert or anything. Maybe you should seek out websites that have professionals that talk about people grieving over breakups.
  • tearsofasith
    July 18, 2007
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    True Love

    I believe I am in true love, as well as my boyfriend. There is a long story to us and some people agree with us. We think we were meant to be together and plan to stay together for the ret of our lives.
    
    Before the second time we got back together, we believed we had found the right people for us. Then they left. Apparently they were not Mrs. or Mr. Right, and deep down we both knew who was. If you find "the right one" and they end up leaving and hurting you so badly, they were not "the right one for you" If that happens to you, you have to realize that "the right one" would not hurt you and leave you. They would remain faithful and love you like you were the breath in their lungs, and more. Once you realize that, I think it'd be easier for you to get over and move on. believe everyone has a true love, it just may take some time, growing, pain, and learning to find them.

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