I got to agree with Te, I’m surprised nobody else has replied to this. I’m like you, I’m 17 years of age and have had my heart broken more than once. In all my life, I’ve never found a guy. I’ve been in one real relationship and sadly, it only lasted 3 months. I never told the guy the truth, but he really did hurt me. About a week after, he got a new girlfriend and there was nothing I could do, but sit back and watch. Before I met him, I had given up, because I would go through other relationships and each one I’d just get my heart riped out and thrown onto the ground. I was called a liar and nothing but a whore, no matter what I did. So I figured, what the heck, I’m never going to find another guy who’s gonna see me for me..Sadly, when I met my ex, he wanted a chance. I personally didn’t want nothing to do with him and I just wanted him to go to hell. What would matter, huh? I gave up and I gave it a try and it seemed to have worked out fine..but then I realised, it was just slowly falling apart. I don’t know if it was my fault or his, but I figured it was someones. We had a lot in common, we’d talk about everything just like you did with your guy, but sadly, it ended. I didn’t really know what to do. I never told him the truth..I probably never will, because I personally don’t think he deserves to know the truth.

I did meet up with a man though, and yes, I mean a man. An adult to be exact..sad thing is, he’s 5 years older then I am. He treats me well and everything and I knew him even when I was with my ex. He helped me through my hard times of heartbreak. I like this man alot and personally, I do say I love him, though, I question myself. When I got with him, I was happy because I loved how I was treated. He treated me like no other, but for some reason..now I’m just no longer happy. We fight alot, I’ve made him cry, I’ve shouted. I think he deserves so much better, but he doesn’t. I guess, basically the only thing I can say is to not give up. I’ve given up so many times, but it hasn’t done any good. You’re right, all you do is cry, because of all the pain. You can’t give up on life, because it’ll make you seem like you’re a coward, but personally I don’t care what others think. What you do, is your own choise, but sometimes you have to take chances. I’ll keep trying, even though I’ll always know that in the end, I’ll just end up getting hurt. After a while, you get used to the pain and sometimes there’s nothing you can do about it. Love is blind and this world has no heart. Just don’t give up yet and keep trying, I’m sure you’ll find him. He’s there, it’s just, you can’t see him or you’re just not noticing. When you do find him, he’ll treat you like no other and it’ll be the happiest day of your life. Look to the stars and they’ll be your guide..You gotta have some hope in life, that’s why we’re still alive..but that’s another story I guess. Never give up, for in the end, you’ll regret it. Love much..

`Liz

I have been through alot, i've seen so many people die, my mom was killed (by my dad). And I can't trust, but what i do is hope, that they can be trusted. But I know there are also people who don't deserve a chance, act as though your giving em' a chance, you might be surprised. I've also had some really bad relationships, i've been in 6 relationships total, 5 of which were unpure, that one... she died, run over by a car I'm in a relationship as of now, and i'm letting her in my heart, i've done my share of crying, I'm done, if she does bad... oh well,

There are 2 ways you can go about bad relationships, you can keep trying over and over and over, or you can go just the opposite, and trust no one.

Most of relationships with people are much different than with significant other(s), but they both have 1 thing in common, you gotta get over it. I did, yet i didn't

Love is a funny thing when your 17 you can love so deeply passionately and willing to do what ever it takes to make it work but then you get burned but over time maybe yrs you'll find your self again, falling for another and he may hurt you but you wil live and go own and the perfect guy will come along, But remember as you get older all these people who have been apart of your life will make you a better person and stronger person. You may not see that now but in time you will be able to look back and say what was I thinking.

I'm only 16 and have gone through the same. It does hurt horribly. It took me 3 years to fully cope with what had happened and how it ended so wrong. But what I found out was that you just need to take your mind off of it as much as you can and I know it sounds corny but "look on the better side". I know many people hate to hear that but it can really work. Spend your time with friends, go see all the new movies, buy yourself something pretty or just hang out and be happy. And if none of that sounds good go rent a nice soap opera or chick flick and just cry your eyes out. That always makes a person feel much better. And if you try your best to be happy again in no time you'll find there might be someone else for you, even if it was someone you never expected. Don't lose hope, okay? Cause if you are only 17 there are still plenty of fish in the sea, so to speak.

what if you only 15 ? --well i am now 16 going on 17 iv been hurt by someone i thought i could trust, and when seeing the bright side more dark came to pull the wool over my eyes. When people go off the railings it is hard to save them and the more you try the more you dig a hole and run yourself into the ground especially when they werent the person you thought they were. film - ( walk to remember would be a good example ) 2 years down the line i am looking back and thinking we were all fools , and moved on. but there is not one day that goes past when i dont think about all the things that has happened. just think when things get bad you are more lucky than you realise and you are also stronger than you realise I could never forgive or trust them after what they did. trust is something that takes time to heal after being crushed but as long as you have friends and someone who loves you you will be fine and i promise you will learn to love again !xx

In fact going through the cycle of love over and again can be a strain on your body and your mind.Like in everything else if you're constantly unlucky in love you begin to tire of it all and lose hope.But that shouldn't be the case.Call me an old romantic but I do believe love must come in the end.Yes it may come later then we wish it but we must learn from our experiences so that we may make our next experiences easier on us.It is a cliche but I believe it to be true that it is better to loved and lost than to not love at all.Because nothing in life is wasted the trick is to learn from what you've been through and in the end your heart will be satisfied.The important thing,for me,is to surround yourself with people who love you like friends and family who will help you through the hard interlude's were love may seem stagnant.

i know how you feel..alot of people think that because we r young we dont feel or tht we will get over it but we feel even more. i was hurt by so many people and i didnt know what to do .i was in love with my bestfriend and we were kinda in between relationships for four years and now we talk like once a week. it kills me cuz i lost not only the love of my life but the only guy i have ever trusted. i am so sorry you are goin through this but one day be patient you will meet someone who you will feel a connection to and will trust..better to have been hurt than to never know emotion..be strong

Love to me is only blinding if you cant control it yourself. The guy you in love with is waiting for you to come back love does not just go away, when you love someone you love them, I am in Love, i just lost the one i love rips through me everyday i cry, People Caused so much pain for us causing trouble i tired soo hard but it just didnt work the spark went, i ended up shouting at her, but i still love her i still care for her i would turn back time and told myself not to do it i regreat it all,

But She Still Loves me, Love is always there that guy will always love you he may not show it but you jsut have to get it out of him show him your love is there.