What if you've been heartbroken say more than once right, your first love really screwed your mind up, left you on the floor bleeding your heart out,and you thought you'd never love again...then some time on a year later your recovering and you meet someone(you can see yourself having a future with) they change and perspective of giving up but yet once again they end up hurting you (nearly as much as your first love,but not as bad) is there any hope for people like me. I feel as if i'll never find someone who i'll have a deep connection with, i've had other relationships but only in my life felt something strong for my first love and this recent guy, we weren't officially in a relationship but we shared so much time talking about our personal stories,families, our dreams, some of our past pain etc..i felt so close to him. We were planning to start to start something.. it just kills & scares me so much to trust after i've been hurt, to be let down all over again. I'm worried about finding someone else, will i ever be able to love someone completely..i do have opportunities to be in relationships but for me i hardly ever find someone i have a deep connection with. I think i'm going out of my mind. Im too depressed and would really appreciate some feedback, as i've just experienced this problem recently. By the way i am young, I'm of 17..yes yes you probably think maybe she doesn't know what she's talking about or what love is.. but whatever this feeling is.. it's a feeling that never ends, a feeling of devestation, and determination so strong, you'd risk and do anything in the world. You can't eat, sleep, thinking, and all u do is cry..and think.....what if?? Love is blind.....
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You are not alone, my friendVoted for by muzicalquest.
I see that I'm going to be the first one to add to this, and I find it quaint to do so. I want you to hear some truth before the uneducated masses start slandering you with their 2 cents worth mediocrity.
Pardon me for sounding a little cynical, I'll adopt a more friendly attitude in the coming sentences.
If you're even still on this website (I mean a member of course,) then I hope you'll read this and send me an email telling me what you think. I'll give my email address at the end.
Love is a very precious thing. Over many years it has hurt and helped hundreds upon thousands of people. And for quite an equal amount of time, it was caused those hundreds of thousands of people to wonder exactly what was going on. This seems to be your case here.
Relationships are always tricky, and, if you don't know what you're doing, or if you don't know the other person well enough, they can be confusing, heartbraking, and frustrating.
Take this from me, if nothing else: there is always going to be hope for you. Always. No matter how many crushing blows you've suffered, no matter how many friends you've lost, there will ALWAYS be hope for you.
My advice to you is to make sure you are a good friend with the person. I'm not talking "hey, let's hang out" or, "we have a lot in common." No, I'm saying that you need to have a friendship with this person that is so strong that you can talk about anything (faith, religion, emotions, daily troubles, jokes, stories, etc.) and be completely comfortable with them. Then, and only then, should you think about a real relationship. If you two have the kind of connection you should have, the relationship will develope itself, and you will realize just how solid of a counterpart you now have.
hope it helps,
Josh
jjmusicnotes@gmail.com
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Move OnVoted for by omarmohamed.
I am only eleven so im not amazing with love but i do have a couple of experinces. A couple of years ago I had five girlfriends. A year later one of them gets all serious about her studies and all so she dumped me(I felt like a sponge thats water had been extracted, then last year another one of my girlfriends left without a word( Imagine how I felt) But yet i forced myself up. So I sujjest you forget about them and move.( I'd quit sobbing about them if i were you).
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