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Is using sex right or wrong?

We all talk about sex in the spiritual and emotional terms. Everyone always says how special and wonderful it is. Put all that aside. What I want to ask is in today's society how do we use sex? And is it right or wrong? Please put aside religion, I'd like to see what people think from the ethical or moral perspectives? Ethical being the overall right or wrong...if you haven't thoroughly studied philosophy please do not attempt this. Moral meaning the societal views and acceptance or not of the issue. We all hear that women use sex to gain respect from men? If you don't put out he respects you... And men use sex to gain praise from their friends? Is either right or wrong? and how should sex be used if at all? Once again no religious bashing please.

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  why is it that we can watch people kill one another on the television, sell toy weapons to children, and own a real gun just for the hell of it, but to have sex is one of the most forbidden sins. i agree that we should not throw our bodies around as we please, but that's morality, plain and simple. but if we weren't meant to have sex, we wouldn't have been given the proper equipment to carry out the acts. and when sex is taken seriously and people are responsible about it, it can be a pleasurable experience that can strengthen a relationship between man and woman, man and man, or woman and woman. sex is not a sin. misuse of sex is the real sin.

  37%  Voted for by key to existence, Kei-Aira, trolly.

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  • trolly
    October 1, 2006
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    Well said!
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    likewhatitis100
    November 8, 2006
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    SEX WAS NEVER MEANT FOR MAN AND MAN

    *and when sex is taken seriously and people are responsible about it, it can be a pleasurable experience that can strengthen a relationship between man and woman, man and man, or woman and woman. sex is not a sin. misuse of sex is the real sin.* Sex was never meant for man and man or woman and woman. It should say when sex is taken seriously and people are responsible about it, it can be a pleasurable experience that can strengthen a relationship between man and woman.full stop.
  • key to existence
    November 8, 2006
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    i take it you're religious in some, or all, ways. that's fine, i cannot judge or discriminate, but only someone with an immaturity, (and maybe even a case of closet homosexuality) would feel so strongly opposed about gay love. i'm not even gay and i can see the way life should be... full of love not judgement.
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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    IvoryRose
    December 22, 2006
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    I don't share that view. I think that life is a blank canvas when we start and every time I experience something new that adds a brush stroke. Sex with a person is just another brush stroke that makes me richer and more interesting as a person for an experience I had. When I get married, I feel it's like locking my painting with my partner's and I would like my painting to have the brush strokes that make it the best it can be by that point! Don't you?
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      Wolf Master
      April 6, 2007
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      ???

      What do you mean?

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