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is going partway in a relationship just as bad as going all the way before you were meant to

does going only to like 2nd or 3rd base ruin a relationship just as bad as going all the way.


  • im not sure

    well see im confused on what should be ya know. me and my girlfriend are saving ourselves for marriage. but does messing around without going all the way ruin the experience just as bad

    Voted for by obituary.
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  • What?

    What "ruining" are you talking about exactly?

    Voted for by Weydon.
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  • i think so...

    well you see.... i think that it some what does and some what doesnt... me and my ex bf went all the way and well we broke up... i dont know exactly why but it hurts... anywayz it depends on the persons personality

    Voted for by the allinater.
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  • Hmm...

    I'm not sure I understand...

    But I'll stab at it anyway. If you weren't ready to go all the way, then you shouldn't have, I suppose. Going all the way wasn't a bad choice for me. I wasn't pressured, and neither was he. It was a decision that we both made. Why is it bad?

    Voted for by Oral Fixation.
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