every time i get a man, he either screws me over or i break his heart. ok well me and my bf just recently broke up after three months of going out. i know it seems like its puppy love to ya'll but its not for me. i mean i fell in love with jory. We gave ourselves to each other and then one day he just stopped talking to me. So i freaked out and whatnot... anywayz, my parents found out that i was cutting myself for a relief of stress then they put me in the hospital. after i got out i called jory and he said that he wanted a break. i said ok acting like everything was fine. but it wasnt. i really want him back. so like a couple of day's later i called him and told him i want him back, and then he said that he had to think about it. I'm really confused about this whole thing. I mean he was the greatest guy in the whole world! Even though we had a long distance relationship i would have been able to see him like every other weekend. i mean it sucks but you dont just throw someone away like that. i dont know if im overeacting and being a drama queen or something but i really want him back and whenever i think about him i get really sad.
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Not overreacting but not accepting50% Voted for by Weydon, Kei-Aira.
You should be upset. It's upsetting.
You shouldn't, however, be wishing for something that isn't going to happen.
Sorry to put it so bluntly, but clinging to that which is gone will only make things worse. Be upset and mourn your loss, but identify that it is a loss. Time will go by and you will heal, as I'm sure you must know since you say you've been through these things before.
There's really no permanent 100% solution. Personally I've become much more laid back with just about everything in life, including relationships. I don't even begin to take them seriously until a good amount of time has gone by. And even when they fail then, I try to not to dwell too much. It always sucks, but it always has helped me grow and learn. I am a much happier person today than ever.
You say "puppy love" implying you're young, and you also say you've been through similar situations a few times. What's the longest you've ever been single? Getting to really find yourself while being single is fantastic and is important in being a happy person. Romance becomes secondary to life.
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I'll agree with WeydonVoted for by frndofyaweh.
Remember that love does not stink; certain people tend to though. if this has happened three times now; maybe you should try some single time and let it sink in that single is not the end of the world. It could be that your aproach and choices tend to follow a specific profile. Re-evaluate your needs and likes and also yourself. Then next time out try and meet someone more like what you find comfortable in a person.
For me to elaborate on that. Would require personal information and we do not want to talk about such things in public forums. If you need more detailed answers, you could try getting some council from a trusted mentor, you can confide the details to.
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July 29, 2006
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Love Doesnt suck.
U sound like ur saying that u just dont dwell in relationships anymore that there a waste of time 2 u and I know a lot of people r saying: u dont need someone 2 make u Happy. Frankly I think everyone should have someone 2 hold 4ever and Love that person I mean Im really a Passionate Person and Love is something God Created 4 us 2 experience and Im Loving it and Frndofyaweh is right also I completely agree with FrndofyawehWeydon
July 30, 2006
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