There are 10 choices, 20 votes for trixie08's debate

Confused? bi or straight?

  • BiSexual

    I am bisexual and I have to hear shit from both sides. Alot of straight people say that anyone who is willing to be with the same sex is disgusting, then homosexuals say that I give them a bad name by being with both, but it is a preference. I like boys and girls. In fact as a female I find females more attractive and can fall in love with either sex.

    20%  Voted for by darkdesires88, WickdlyUndrstanding, spike4HIM, The Bondage Faerie.
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  • does a knife in the back feel any better than one in the front

    Trixie8, first off what you feel is not uncommon. You are not confused, a moral degenerate or a stupid girl who can’t make up her mind. What you are is a person who is attracted to both sexes. In some ways being a homosexual is easier. At least you only get attacked from straight people. Being bi means you have to listen to dopey gays who feel they need to offer opinions on your sexuality too. My personal favorite is when some one tries to tell you that bisexuality doesn’t exist! I feel like slapping them up along side the head and saying “ hay fool I’m standing right here do you want me to prove it?” in the end the only thing you can do is follow your heart. Take heart trixie you are not alone.

    15%  Voted for by bob2314, Weydon, Kazrith.
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  • None

    To be honest, you may see me as bisexual, or even confused. I must say that I am just comfortable being with either sex.. I know that I havent experienced much, but I do know that I am proud for actually accepting both sexes around me. I absolutely love being with gay guys because they help with clothing and bluntly tell what is wrong with the outfit.. I love being with girls even though they 'can' be overdramatic. I love being with guys because I get to be rough with them..

    15%  Voted for by rockys8r, Kazrith, bob2314.
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  • meh

    Pansexual. I don't believe in bi, lesbian, straight or Gay. I think everyone has the possibility of falling in love with any type of person at any time but people limit themselves due to the fact they have been conditioned to want a type of certainty in life, "example=religion", They feel a need to limit themselves so they don't feel so vulnerable and so they think they know exactly what they want, when the actuality is there are 6 billion people on the world and to say just because no one in your area has turned you on to the same sex opposite sex or so on means it will never happen, and when you call yourself by one of these titles you tend to stop looking at everyone equally and that eliminates your chances of falling in love more, true everyone has a norm that they are attracted to but their will always be variables that don't fall into the norm, And when someone stops looking at people equally they ignore these possibilities and may cut off their chances of finding true love, I find it sad that humans are so unsure about themselves and scared about what they feel they decide the only way to feel good is label themselves and build walls around themselves. everyone has gates that they should open and let themselves explore their own desires and mind but they dont.Pansexuals open these gates and realize the possibilities and explore how they feel and are open to falling in love with anyone.

    15%  Voted for by Neros Decay, introvertish-divert, violetandmagenta.
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  • Not Confused

    I am bisexual. I love both man and woman. I'm not afraid of telling people either. I tried to be straight awhile back ago but kept on looking at women. I think that everyone is beautiful, no matter the skin, sex, or weight. I am very happy and content being bisexual. One day I'll find a husband and I'll have a wife. It might take some time but yeah Kari

    10%  Voted for by Hekate, Kazrith.
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  • If you are

    If you're bisexual you'll know it in time. Just go with your gut feeling. Don't jump to conclusions just because you have feelings for women. You won't know for sure until you actually make love to a woman Be patient. What's meant to be will happen. Kari

    Voted for by Hekate.
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  • Confused

    I'm currently confused on my sexuality I really think that I'm bi but, I look at girls some of the time and I still love boys though.

    Voted for by trixie08.
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  • Not All tho

    Not all people that or bi or gay limit themselves. Some do change their mind later. Some people do limit themselves for things that happened in the past and are comfortable but that doesn't make them a bad person. I know of a person that was gay almost her whole life tell she meant the man of her dreams and they are married and have a child. Anything can happen..if it is meant to be it will happen. Kari

    Voted for by Hekate.
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  • confused

    yeah, sounds like you may be dizzy.

    Voted for by Energizer Bunny.
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  • I Really Don't Know

    Well, I would technically class myself as heterosexual, but in some ways I think I'm not. I really like guys-my boyfriend can tell you that-but he tends to go on about the fact that I've kissed a few girls, saying that makes me a lesbian, but I don't quite know how to class myself. If anyone can help sort this confusion out, it'll be greatly appreciated.

    Peace all

    x x

    Voted for by NicotineHeartbreak.
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