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Our Body rememebers EmotionsVoted for by AvenueHarris.
I have been thinking about this for a very very long time and it finally came to me. I have a friend who has a boyfriend, he has cheated on her nine times and she always takes him back. Now, yes I know alot of people are going to say maybe she was insecure or had something wrong going on in her mind. Ok maybe but right now I am talking about times when we are in a relationship that the person in hurting us maybe saying mean things or just making uus feel like crap. Our body remebers emotions I believe, like if you see a picture, or a child hood memory you get that emotion back for a minute or however long you dwell on that feeling. That is why I truly believe if someone is hurting you or making you feel bad, you stay with them, because you have hope that they will give that emotion back. That at one point that person brought you intense happiness or love and now you are fighting for it. The way I discovered this is that I had been in a on and off again relationship, I could not understand why though, why afetr this persona nd I were " Done" did I want them back. The answer is clear in that I wanted what we once had, i wanted who he once was....even thhough I never got it, that is what I was fighting for. So maybe if you are in relationship where you can't get out, do something that brings forth emotion to help ease your desire or pain. I believe this truly. Tell how you feel ?
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November 25, 2006
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I'm Married and I need help....
I need some advice from anyone I need help... I'm in the point where I don't care about life anymore. My husband and I have been married for almost a year now and I love him. He hurts me so much he cusses at me alot do I deserve it? Ofcourse not no women out their deserves to be hit, cussed at, not pushed around when they made a small mistake. My husband is like that he doesn't think twice before saying something hurtful to me. He gave me a toy poodle when we were dating and I still have him now I treat him like my baby. Am I wrong for doing that? My husband treatends to kill him everytime that we get into arguments and that really makes me very mad. I think about hurting myself alot other times when I'm crying I whisper to myself and I ask God Why is this happening to me? Other times I just ask him to take me with him becase I don't want to live anymore. He shows no emotion when I cry he only calls it an act, I don't want to hurt myself and I don't want for God to take me with him....At least not yet. I want to live. I feel very depressed and very sad I don't have many friends but I do wish that I had someone who I could talk to and tell him or her my problems. I'm Married and I need help.... Please anyone give me some advice about what to do, I don't want to divorce him because he's my everything I love him too much. mysteryousmtzPlease register or login to comment! It's totally free