There are 9 choices, 21 votes for London Calling's debate

Abortion- What about the father's rights?

Debates about abortion all focus on the woman (i.e. "it's her choice", "that woman should burn in hell for murdering her unborn child" etc) Not much thought is given to the rights of the father, which is why I have started this debate.


  • Womans world

    Yes in theory the father should be able to have a say but in the end it is the women who has to expierience the wares and tears of pregnacy and childbirth

    It would be a perfect world if everyone could get what they wanted but say the women was denied an abortion how would that affect the pregnancy....Would she smoke, drink do drugs? And genrally not care since she did not want it anyway?

    There have even been cases of self abortions

    Women are very determined people if they do not want it they will not have it.

    The father is totally passive in this subject. Although he should get a choice the process is so much more complicated than clicking the fingers and suddenly having a baby in your arms it is the womans body therefore the woman gets their way.

    23%  Voted for by nays-lil-boat, Cornilius, thrawn, CookieZeal, Dead Hair.
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  • No

    It's nice to get the father's input, but it's ultimately the woman's choice.

    19%  Voted for by Weydon, petethemeat, thrawn, Dead Hair.
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  • Court - Roe Vs. Wade

    Roe was the mother and did not want to carry the baby, Wade, the father, wanted to keep the baby, even if the mother wasnt in his life anymore. but it this way, they went to court and the jury went with the mother. Now there is no chance that if a woman doesnt want to go through pregnancy, the father just has to sit on the sidelines and watch as is love has the abortion (and would be viewed as the one at fault of the whole thing).

    14%  Voted for by Kazrith, bob2314, Cornilius.
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  • just one more reason to be gay!

    how about this? there's way to many unwanted kids and way to many abortions. all you have to do do is slip a piece of plastic over mr. happy and avoid the question altogether.

    9%  Voted for by bob2314, Dead Hair.
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  • For all

    For all those claiming the father should have a vote, simply because you are pro-life, what if the father chooses abortion? The idea of this debate is, afterall, under the pretense that abortion is allowed and who gets to choose this.

    So if the mother wants the kid, and the father doesn't, it should be aborted? Or is it some completely fair rule in favor of pro-lifers where it takes 2 votes for an abortion, but only 1 to keep.

    When the voting is 1 against the other, and the 2 don't agree: Who are we to go with but the one that will carry the child and bear all the health and social risks?

    If you are against it because you are pro-life, you are in the wrong debate.

    9%  Voted for by Weydon, Dead Hair.
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  • When Two Tango

    If the pregnancy was unplanned then it is the mother's choice 100%. If the pregnancy is planned and then the mother backs out, the father has 50% say which forces a third party to get involved.

    9%  Voted for by david13, Dead Hair.
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  • Tug of War

    I'm very much pro-choice, but I think serious consideration should be given to the wishes of the potential father. The problem is, in a case where the mother wants an abortion, but the father wants the child, how should it be decided? Hmm... tough one...

    Voted for by London Calling.
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  • Depends on the situation

    When someone considers themselves to be mature enough for a sexual relationship they should know the consequences. If a woman or man are irresponsible enough to conceive without being ready they either have to accept responsibilty or give the child up for adoption.

    Why should a man have to lose his child? The woman has responsibilty for protecting her own body if she fails she has to face the consequences and go through child birth if the father is willing to bring the child up on his own and vice versa if the woman wants the child and the man doesn't then he should back off and let her get on with it.

    Rape. Gratefully I have never been in this situation and could not begin to imagine how this feels. In these circumstances I would agree the mother has every right to make her own decision.

    Voted for by Applehead.
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