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plz take th tyme out and help me

Alright I like this grl, a lot. We met to long ago (2yrs). We liked each other and always use to call each other. Then we started a somewat relationship (the ones without the title) anyway.... we stop seein each other and continue the realtionships with the people we was in love with.

Fast forwarded two years later we back and contact thing have changed in ter,s of out status but feeling for each other are still there. OK. Here's my problem... I think I'm in love with her bkuz I never stop thinkin about her and I pretty much made up in my mind no girl would amount to her. I think I have a lot more feelings for her than she does for me. She is the pretty girls I've ever seen, and she's smart. The typical total package I guess. With that said I know she's not faithful and being that I feel so strongly for heri know she's able to hurt me. Keep in mind she has a grl but we together when we together.
Should I try to make her my girl, riskin everything, or do I keep this role and continue to fall in love?
Help me plz!!!
  • Let it go.
    It always amazes me that people want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with them. Even if you got together it wouldn't last long. It would be stressful all the time. Beauty is only skin deep. I'm sure that you will eventually find the right one. One who will love you for you. I believe that forcing it will only cause you grief.
    40%  Voted for by mudgod, PsycoDad.
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  • Hm
    I agree with mudgod (!!!!!) to a lesser extent. If you really want to try making her your girl, even though you're worried about trust, I say give it a shot. You'll never know unless you try. Cliche but true. Just use your head--if you think she's cheating on you and you still can't trust her, then it's not going to work.

    If you know for sure you won't be able to trust her, do NOT keep this role and continue falling in love. How are those the only 2 options? Being stuck in love with someone who doesn't love you back will just get more and more painful, and destroy most any chance of you getting over her and finding someone who makes you happy. You WILL get over her if you give yourself that chance, it will just take time. Give yourself some time and space if she can't be your girl.
    40%  Voted for by Weydon, Oral Fixation.
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  • Open and Honest Communication
    Honestly, go up and tell her how you feel.
    You don't always have to be smooth and MAKE her your girl. Just go up to her and tell her how you really feel about her. If she's freaked out or something, then you know she just won't reciprocate and isn't worth your time. If she is touched, then good luck.
    Either way, don't stay stuck in a rut.
    Go out and grow some balls, for better or worse.
    Voted for by endsofbread.
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