Marriage is a very important step in our lives. Well at least it should be. We go to spend the rest of our lives with our one true love. So why all the sex before marriage?
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sex before marriage justified
In reality we should all be married and have had sex with our partner at least by age 14 when we we are getting sexualy mature but the way society is set up in the world is wait untill your done completing college and get the job of your dreams around age 23 then get married and have sex with your partner.
Lets say for example you are with this girl / guy of your dreams and you and your girl / guy happen to be both under 18 years of age. You two like each other so much that you just cant help it its just one of the moments and you have sex then afterwards you find out your a mom / dad.
Well then because education and getting a good paying job is pretty much more important than being with the girl / guy of your dreams and raising your child together according to the society we live in while being under 18 years of age it might just end up in an abortion or if both you and the girl / guy choose, you can get married live together and raise the child without finishing your education then end up with some crappy job that can just barely support your new family.
You see, the way society is set up it pretty much decides for us if we are too young or not to get married which is in turn delaying "legal" sex to an older age. Then at the same time we are being suppressed from marriage and that sex with our partner the natural urge for sex just drives us crazy and in many cases will lead to sex before marriage.
You see the way society works just disrupts the natural process of the way human life probably should be. Not that i'm for sex before marriage i'm just against the fact that the marriage is in a way delayed by about 7 years off the way it should be naturaly due to society factors.
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dollar,
Oral Fixation,
gevorgkhc.
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Yes it is
Why would it be unjustified? Sex is not something that has to be shared with just that one person. What if you get married and find out that the two of you are sexual opposites? Some people don't want to get married at all. What is the big deal about virginity before marriage? It doesn't make you somehow pure. It, in my opinion, makes you simply unsatisfied with a major portion of your life while young. There are relationships that are not meant to last, but while they do are filled with love. Why should those people deny themselves something just because society says that having sex is bad? And who said that sex outside of marriage is bad? From what I know only adultery is actually unmoral.
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CrazyRebel,
Raithea.
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Walking Before Running Justified?
If sex is going to play a part of a marriage don't you think you should master it beforehand (no pun intended). Same goes with relationships. Is your marriage going to be your first relationship based on friendship (which, in turn, involves sex). How can you succeed if you have no experience?
I believe every man and woman should have, at least, a dozen relationships (yes, with sex, I might dare say) before getting married. It should be mandatory by state law before anyone is permitted of having babies. It would bring peace to the world.
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Brew Kline,
hypnorocker.
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hmmmm...
if everybody waited till they got married i will gareenty there will be less STDīs flying around and we would not have that big of an AIDīs epidemic. so to help these causes doesnt make any sense apart that we want sex. so in reality the only real reason we have for sex before marriege is i feel like doing it. so in the end we shouldnt do not just for the morality factor but the health factor, but teenager have this feeling of it wont happen to me or im better than that and so do because they want to.
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pnktrky.
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Never
Any sex outside of marriage is adultery.
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mudgod.
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I don't believe the bible crap, so it doesn't really matter what adultery is to me...Sex before marriage is an enjoyable act which helps to bond each other together.
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August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...hypnorocker
August 17, 2007
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....if you say so...
im not implying people SHOULD have sex for practice, just saying i think they should be able to if they want to (and are able to accept the responsibilities and consequences of their actions) and you assume someone will not use protection or be safe about it... while im sure some people are like that i think its not fair to label everyone like that.... as far as it being a sin..... thats only if you happen to be religious in that sense, and as far as abortion... the baby becomes alive and dreams at some point during the latter part of the second trimester, thats my definition of a baby, not saying anyone should agree, just giving my point of view so you can see where im coming from...Please register or login to comment! It's totally free