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What does sex mean to you?

I notice a lot of pressure to have sex these days. First off i'd like to say there is nothing at all wrong with being a virgin, i know theres nothing wrong with it, i am one at age 18. I wouldnt want my virginity lost to just any person and sex to me is far more than just for the pleasure or the feeling of being socialy "accepted."

  • Sex to me is...
    An act of affection. A bonding activity. Fun. Exciting. Interesting. Beautiful.

    When I think of sex, I think of more than a porno scene. I think of not only the physical attractions, but emotional attractions as well. I adore my boyfriend to no end. He treats me good, and he likes my body, even if it's got its flaws (every girl that's not in a porno has asymetrical breasts and DOES have a uterus that pushes out the lower abdomen [making you look a little flabby sometimes]).

    Sex is being turned on by the smell of my boyfriend (with no cologne, TAG, AXE, not showering in a day or two [eck!]), despite his outward appearence...He lives in a house with people who smoke like chimneys, and I still spend half of my time with him with my face in his neck. Strange but true.

    Sex is being mates. Granted, there are people who have three or four sexual partners a week, but I believe that sex is being mates: Supporting each other, tending to each other, helping out, etc.

    Sex is bonding. It brings us closer and lets us focus on nothing but each other for an hour or so.

    Sex is fun. It's about time I got to this one, right? It's fun, admit it. It's an activity you an your significant other both benefit from, unlike the Patriots game and the triple you just watched, and isn't that Ortiz on third base? Yes, that is part of the bonding part of sex, too: You both enjoy each other.

    Sex is beautiful! Not only is it the act of bonding, affection, and having a mate, but it's the reason for life! How else are you reading this? Because someone did the hokey pokey and turned themselves around because that's what it's all about, silly. Sex, in all aspects, is perfect. It's more than a feel good thing to me.

    Sex, woo, go life!
    22%  Voted for by Oral Fixation, Weydon, Princess Wolf, vigilant, nanoinfinity. (7 total)
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  • Lust->Sex
    The main thing about sex is the lust. Love can be present, but is not required. Sure, it can be something to make a relationship bond stronger, but It can just well be a purely physical delight.
    12%  Voted for by CrazyRebel, Weydon, RockerArtistMusician, RebelRebel.
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  • Mostly meaningless highs ...
    Often simply a way to fulfill basic urges and reward yourself with a brief but enjoyable high.

    Occasionally it is a way for me to further a physical connection and to allow our bond to grow in a way that friends can never fulfill, with a girl I have feelings (other than mere lust) for but this is rare for me.

    9%  Voted for by petethemeat, Weydon, Cube.
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  • Sex is a selfish act
    Sex only unites two people. The Beatles united millions. The idea of a nation-state unites billions. Sex only unites two people. It is selfish.
    6%  Voted for by Brew Kline, Cube.
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  • Very very little
    No pun intended.
    6%  Voted for by frndofyaweh, Cube.
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  • sex to me is...
    something i wouldnt just give to anyone but to someone who is very special to me and is willing to spend the rest of there life with me. I view it as more of a way to get to know the person your with on a deeper level and really have a fond understanding of one another. Its when both souls meet to form one in my opinion.
    6%  Voted for by dollar, -Mz Spina-x0.
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  • sex to me....
    ...is something that should be special,with some one you could say;if you had to give some one your life, they would be the one you'd trust your life with.Or maybe thats a little too deep...???So basically some one you completly trust.some one that you love and in love with.

    sex is something that shouldn't just be sex,its like got to have an emotional feeling.A bit of a reason for it,like to show your love to your partner.

    This is a little hard to explain actually...but You just know when it is right for You.
    Voted for by night sky mystery.
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  • Sex is a natural act: Emotions or Passions is a subjective matter
    While discussing on sex we often or rather most of the times come across words like lust, love, pleasure, etc. While each physical and mental want is argued upon one may tend to forget that sex is a natural need of all species; some are motivated by relationship like in humans; some by production and perpetuation; and some may i say by peer pressure (again in humans).
    Voted for by Jackymania.
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  • one of the most important things
    the ultimate form of expressing love is to give your body for complete pleasure of the other and them do the same. ofcourse this is within its context cause current sex as protraid by movies and tv is just a pastime that gives you pleasure and used for some form of bonding. we tend to forget that this is the begining for all of us who live. everyone begins in sex, with some exceptions ofcourse. so i hold sex to the highest esteem and something that should not be taken lightly like it is normally done today. for our sivival as a species depends on sex, thats why we have a sexual drive and why its is so pleasurable. even nature knows if it feels good we are going to do it again. so let us not be controlled by our isntincts but by our hearts.
    Voted for by pnktrky.
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  • sex should be:
    The buildup of desire. It should be done as the next natural step in the buildup of desire, when it becomes so strong that there is nothing left to do to satiate it. If it is done for any other reason it will be fun, like any adventure is fun but it won't be erotic. (if youre a girl)
    Voted for by happysassycassie.
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  • sex is truth
    sex is the ultimate act of opening up to someone and trusting them to take care of your body at it's most vulnerable. This may not be as true for men, because I don't know if it is as vulnerable an act for all men. but think about it. in the moment(s) of orgasm you are relinquishing all control of your body to pleasurable sensation. so, when there is a partner involved in that orgasm, that means you are allowing them to be present for one of the most vulnerable moments in your life. sometimes alcohol and drugs will helps this trust along. but as long as the walls of defense are voluntarily open, then sex should be a good thing. it is truth. your ultimate truth shared with other peoples ultimate truths. i dont think the people you have sex with have to be someone you think youre going to spend the rest of your life with, or even someone you plan on spending the next day with. but it should never be someone you dont trust with your body. because there should always be truth in sex. it's just not worth having any other way.
    Voted for by maddyblue.
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  • sex...
    sex the word means nothing... now making love is a completely different thing and means alot!!
    Voted for by splodgey.
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  • Sex is...
    ...just that, sex
    it's not love, it's not compassion, it's not truth or anything
    it's an act between two people who may or may not be consenting, who may or may not be of age, who may or may not be ready
    sex is just that, sex
    Voted for by Dirty and Broken.
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  • Not Always special...
    To me if you plan on giving up your virginity to someone, i think its best not to be attached to them. if you becoem attached and then they break your heart you could possibly regret it, hate the person, or even hatre yourself. I gave my virginity to a man i met though a few friends, we knew eachother for about 4 months, and at first it was innocent cuddling (And I swear that is the entier truth) but one night we just ended up having sex. I dont regret it. At first it was just sex, and that was how we both wanted it. Neither of us was attached. But I wont lie the sex did bring us closer together. We started dating shortly after that night.
    Voted for by PerpetualNight.
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  • sex to me....
    tends to be the end of a relationship. Just for the simple fact I dont want to and 85% of guys in my area or at all do. Theres a ridiculous spark of people from my high school class popping out kids and we graduated only 2 years ago. 2 years this year. Some of them had kids during highschool and I aint ready for that so it tends to get me broken up with or nothing to even start.


    I do find that when I tell people I dont have sex and dont plan on it for the time being they try to be the one to break me. Which is kind of amusing for me cause I get to watch that burn but its very annoying.

    Sex should be something that is just for two people in a fulfilling relationship. It shouldnt be oh I got drunk and got laid so its okay. No its not thats why you have STDs in the morning. Its also something people should be prepared for and alot of times I dont think they are. Like my high school class. None of them are ready for it. Some are on their second kid and arent even in a relationship. Its just something to think about that no one does. They jump right in and when they hop out of happy land they got a kid on their hip and some bumps and burning down below.
    Voted for by Stepherz804.