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Both...ishYou can't really help having feelings towards someone, but you can help yourself from stop feeling a certain way. It's extremely beneficial to catch yourself early on and simply stop thinking of them that way. If you're already in love, you need to stop spending time with them (and stalking them).40% Voted for by Weydon, pnktrky.
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Love is createdAfter the initial basic mental or physical attraction, love is semi-consciensciously built. Love is something people build or destroy together. Love is made of thousand strings that makes the rope binding lovers to each other. It can be very resistant but if not maintained by both it can break. Through facination you can even build love for your once worst enemy.40% Voted for by netdoc, blacktambourine23.
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Love is always thereLove doesn't needs to be created it is always there and it is also not possible for you to stop loving someone. If you've a true love you can't leave it so love the beloved and wish for one's success.Voted for by Theblackocean.
Love is a sea looks beatiful from outside but when one steps in there's no way out that's what I think
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January 18, 2007
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Really how many times have you heard that someone grew into the love they have for thier spouse.
I think we can grow into love, and I think we can also get in the frame of mind of being in love with the idea of being in love with someone. It the end it leads to downfall since the latter just is not really built on substance.
Weydon
January 18, 2007
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That if you're in love and don't want to be anymore--because you're already involved, they're already involved, or they don't feel the same way--time apart will help you get over them.Weydon
January 18, 2007
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Weydon
January 19, 2007
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Similar, I'd say. If you catch yourself falling out of love, it's much easier to save. Because you're catching yourself, you'll likely feel almost heartbroken that YOU don't feel in love so much anymore, and you can make efforts to rekindle what you're losing. If you're already out of it, the motivation and ability to get back is worse. Generally it seems to be caused not just by boredom and getting used to things and annoyed by little things, but by not saying anything. Keeping your negative feelings bottled up and sitting around mopey instead. It's avoidable by stop being so silly in your mind and appreciate what you do have, putting effort into the "rekindling", and respectfully addressing problematic issues that won't seem to go away.Sometimes though, like falling in love, it can't be avoided.
Applehead
January 21, 2007
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I agree es sometimes weydon does talk a lot of senseWeydon what do you mean by "respectfully addressing issues that won't seem to go away"? Can I presume you mean discuss the issues in a mature manner. If so what if this is not an option it takes two to have a discussion. In life their are people open and willing to take on board others opinions and feelings and then there are those who merely listen when they like the sound of what they are hearing. The latter would definately cause problems within a relationship especially where communcation is concerned.
Weydon
January 23, 2007
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True, but it can happen. Basically either you realize you're no longer in love and want a way out, or you realize you're no longer in love and want to go back.June 6, 2007
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