There are 6 choices, 9 votes for Dancing Doll's debate

Why separation?

It is man’s own weakness that his lover is separated from him. No one departs and abandons his love voluntarily.


  • Lover's fault

    It is the blunder on the part of lover why he lets his love departed from him. Only death can separate the true love.

    33%  Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi, Shamaila Khalid, Dancing Doll.
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  • should not have married in the first place.

    the bible says a lot of things one of those things being that if you can not control yourself it is best to marry. when a man marry a woman he talks on more responsibility. having not only take care of himself but a wife and children. being single you can put your energy else where.

    22%  Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi, enoch.
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  • What a bunch of baloney

    There are plenty of instances where someone could volunarily leave a love. What if it’s better for the person you leave? What if they love another and you don’t feel like wasting away, still loving them? What if you DID love them but by some CRAZY improbability…you are they or BOTH have somehow CHANGED as a person!!!?

    Just because someone leaves you does not neccessarily mean you are/were weak. There are a whole slew of reasons for leaving a person and it really refledcts little on your ability to be with someone else and make them happy (unless the reason they left you was because you cheated and/or beat the person and/or some extreme craziness, in which case you might want to work on that).

    Voted for by Scrap.
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  • Beloved 's error too....

    Beloved must realise the deep love shining in the eyes of true lover.

    Voted for by Shamaila Khalid.
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  • wow separation

    i cannot marry her, and i feel her absence though i have 4 babies from my wife, but she is not my beloved. Separation is like slow poisoning that is killing me gradually

    Voted for by Emotions.
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  • Lack Of Courage.

    Lack of courage to express one’s feelings before the lover as well as to do something risky to win love are also the hurdles on the way to achieve one’s love. As it has rightly been said that “Frail hearts never win Fair Lady”.!!!

    Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi.
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