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Y do people that messed up their lives always wanna be the ones to tell u how to live urs?

People whose lives literally suck always wanna be the 1st to tell u what ur doin wrong with urs wether its ur love life or etc. for example a woman with 4 kids three baby daddy's and 2 divorces will lecture u on y u can't keep a man. lol i just don't get it
  • umm
    what??

    Voted for by Kazrith.
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  • Living by Experience
    More often than not, the people who are telling you this stuff are worried about you and your future. The woman you stated in your example sees how hard it is to keep a guy, and doesn't want you to end up like she did, four kids, three fathers, and 2 divorces later.. Its not uncommon for people to give advice to others if those others are going down the same road they went down themselves. After all, isn't that what parents do all the time. Tell us things that they did wrong so that you won't make the same mistakes. Its the "been there, done that" kind of thinking that causes people to give advice, even in, and especially in those areas where they've screwed up themselves.
    Its a matter of caring.. and living by experience that causes that stuff to happen...
    Voted for by DreamingSpirit.
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