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Men: what do you look for in a woman?

I have this theory what men want, and what women think they want, might be different .

So to the men - what do you look for in a woman?



Women, please tell us what you think men look for in a woman, here:
http://allphilosophy.com/topic/show/4179

(I had said for men to not read the other topic before responding here, and for the sexes to keep to their own topics... but actually, just go nuts. Where-ever it flows it flows ) .
  • No particular human model
    What I look for in a woman is qualities she posseses that trigger feelings.

    I often like women who can provide and share experiences with me. This often manifests in an older woman, yet should a younger or same age girl be able to do so then I will feel an equal level of attraction.

    The same is with good looks. Most of the time, a girl with long brown/dark hair is what prompts the feeling of attraction, yet should a girl with a different look cause the same feelings then that is equally splendid.
    21%  Voted for by petethemeat, Weydon, pnktrky.
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  • I've Thought About It
    First of all, she has to be a woman who will make me a better man. I cannot be with a woman who will not make me want to grow in several key aspects. She has to complete me.

    These are my preferences and in this order:
    SPIRITUALITY (has to compliment my own)
    Humor (We have to get each others jokes you know)
    INTELLIGENCE (I'm used to being the smart one, but not all the time please. I love wit.)
    PRETTINESS (cute instead of sexy, although sexy isn't a bad thing. And she can't weigh more than me.)
    NICENESS
    HOMEY-NESS (the ability to just be comfortable, relaxed, cozy)
    OUTGOING-NESS (i want her to push me on new things)
    and just a little bit of CRAZINESS. (i get bored by routine)

    I don't need everything and its not like I have a checklist when I meet a girl.

    The two MAIN things are always just CONNECTION and GROWTH. I have to have just a good connection, you know, being able to talk to her. There has to be genuine interest on both sides. And growth is that inner human ability to encourage one another and always work together to create something beautiful, from each other, to a relationship, to a marriage, and hopefully some kids.
    14%  Voted for by endsofbread, Socio-Sympathy.
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  • I OBJECT
    where the heck do i post? I like men!
    14%  Voted for by Kazrith, bob2314.
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  • the only quality i look for
    absence
    Voted for by bob2314.
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  • what i look for
    ...is honesty, humor, creativity, integrity, passion, gentleness, cuddliness, wit, practicality and wisdom, good looks are a plus, but not a requirement, because nobody's a supermodel when they're old, and i plan to grow old with my woman.
    the biggest requirement, however, is that she loves me
    Voted for by NeferMaatNetjer.
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  • Meh...
    It depends on the mood, if I wanted someone to love I would obviously look for a fun loving personality, and some looks too, so sue me. Looks are an important thing to a degree for me, I am a sex freak
    Voted for by Ninja Bubble.
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  • who knows
    she would have to be as fucked up in the head as me because i dont want to spend time with someone i know thinks im a sociopath ,unless they are ok with that,

    and also someone younger then me so i would get that protective sense
    also a bit shy because the above and i couldnt stand her haveing tons of friends,i dont like people

    average looking any better is a plus+

    average intellgence again plus+ if she is smarter

    and she has to get my morbid/ dry humor

    also a bonus if she is left handed and/or has blue eyes(its a gentics thing)
    Voted for by thecornerofacircle.
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  • A very holy woman
    Sex twice a day, with me and only me. =P
    But someone who won't have sex with me until we are married. Oh and someone who will cook for me even if I don't ask nice. (I will try almost all the time). Someone who will walk on my back(as a massage). (I'll give her massages too).

    Umm, I like a woman that would go with church with me. Give me a little tug if I get tired. I hope she scratches my back. Someone who will listen to me talk. Talk about phi, the golden ratio, atoms, scientific theories, my day, etc... She won't have a job, so she can come to my job and keep me company. Someone who will have LOTS of kids (once I figure out how to make her pregnant). I want lots of kids. LOTS. I want many mini-mes running amok! Um, someone who will clean my room.. yea I want my room clean. I don't want her related to me. umm, If she is good looking, then that is a bonus. I want her to be joyful, and express joyness, and give me sss.... super fun days! I want to go to the gym and work on my fitness with her as my witness. She doesn't have to have a sexy body, but a sexy body would be a plus. Big plus. If she isn't sexy, she will be soon. I like the cross country type, they look very hot usually. Must be the running hormones. I want her to scratch my head. That feeling is second only to orgasms. Well... I mean, i don't know. But I HERD it's second only to orgasms.

    Now, I literally just typed what I thought, I would USUALLY refine my thoughts, but I just wanted to see what I would type. I really forgot how much I thought about sex throughout the day.

    I apparently lost some innocence in the past year.
    Voted for by Doom Pickels.
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  • We are all individual!!!
    If only it was easy as finding out what the ideals were for the opposite sex!! How much less divorce and time wasted trying to find 'the right one' would there be?!?

    In answer to your question, us guys really are different, some just want for looks, others smart etc, we don't all think the same.

    Of course the ideal woman would be caring, smart, funny, good-looking, athletic or fit, confident, trustworthy etc but that's probably exactly what girls look for in guys!!!

    What sets us guys apart is how much value we place on certain qualities. For example, my ideal woman is intelligent, trustworthy, caring and organized (probably because I'm none of those things!), but others would rather an attractive, funny, out-going type of woman.

    So I guess the sad part of this is that not only is this a really uneasy answer to your question, but it looks like the search for the 'perfect' woman or man will continue to exist so long as we all continue to be different!!!

    P.S. This was a good topic to bring up but its got the flip side of the coin - what do women ideally want from a man?
    Voted for by tfry.
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  • tough question
    well,the basics a heartbeat and working brain.
    Voted for by Socio-Sympathy.
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