There are 9 choices, 21 votes for Mujtaba H Zaidi's debate

Men make houses, women make homes?

Men work as masons, labourers, contracters, architects, investers etc to build beautiful and magnificient palaces, forts, residences, towers, colonies etc etc, but if their does not live any woman/mistress, the building/dwelling cannot be declared as “home”. To make it “Home Sweet Home”, their must be mother/wife/sister/daughter/beloved etc to turn a house into home. Is it true or a house/residence can be home without the presence of woman??


  • Sexist

    None of this is true. I build houses and I’m a girl. I’m also a lesbian. How does that work? It doesn’t! What if it’s two guys?

    33%  Voted for by chaotic peace, mysterydragon, unheardwisdom, catseyes2468, Insertnamehere. (7 total)
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  • Ridiculous

    Its ridiculous to say that only women can be sweet and kind...men have that capability as well it is just repressed by the gender roles of society which would be ...men strong cold unfeeling...women weak caring loving.....because these are the views held by most of society that is how children are brought up to believe...i think part of the reason i believe this is because i was raised by my mother and therefore adopted views of feminism...however i am constantly teased due to my ideas and no doubt other young men are as well causing them to want to be more "manly" and forgetting their original morals

    14%  Voted for by Ravens-Black-Wing, 5th position Gb, cosmosis.
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  • true and sweetly put.

    Read the book of Proverbs concerning the women, wife and home. The woman is the lighthouse to the man. He struggles without her. She is the virtue that builds his business and family. Several chapters in Proverbs concerning women and it paints a picture of equality, not following the leader, but of a family democratic.

    14%  Voted for by frndofyaweh, Dancing Doll, Carpool.
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  • Dull without women

    Home is merely a building without women, with no beauty or grace and attraction at all. It is women that turn a house into home. And moments are colourful with women.

    9%  Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi, Dancing Doll.
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  • well...

    it is becuz a lot more women than men ay attnetion to detail and like things to be cheery and pretty while a lot of men can deal with a house so to speak without bright colors or sentimental things.

    Ash

    9%  Voted for by Shamaila Khalid, ohsweetie2788.
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  • sexist

    what about lesbians and gays? They can in fact make a caring home with a partner of the same sex. A single parent, man or woman can also make a loving home.

    Voted for by asymmetry.
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  • husband and wife

    A woman cannot imagine a home without husband and children, and same will be the case with man. Real love is that which is between the members of a family.

    Voted for by Shamaila Khalid.
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  • not really

    I think it's security and love that make buildings homes, disregarding sex. However, I find this a nice thought, if you don't take it literally but rather think of the yin-yang principles, then it would be as well true. One doesn't have to be a woman to be femininie or vice-versa.

    Voted for by Dienush.
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  • ......

    i think women can do both.i can be a mother and hold a job that a man can do like building houses.

    Voted for by allaboutpoetry.
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