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Bi. Is it Cheating

Okay I used to be bi and am not because I have a boyfriend. He says its okay to be dating a guy and be doing things with girls....
Is this cheating
  • No
    It's not cheating if the parties involved are aware of the situation and okay with it. Who's being CHEATED? No one. He's fine with it.

    Of course this doesn't mean you SHOULD be doing it and are wrong for not wanting to. If you don't like the idea of involving yourself with anyone else in any from when in a relationship, then don't. Whatever you're comfortable with.
    50%  Voted for by Weydon, bob2314, Seria-Evans, aria94.
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  • Kissing other girls as a girl in a relationship with a guy is cheating.
    Kissing and touching other girls sexually as a girl in a relationship with a guy is cheating. I have been taught kissing anyone aother then your significant other(Minus family) is cheating even other girls. But my boyfriend encourages it.
    Voted for by Amazing Grace17.
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  • yeah, i would say so
    being in a relationship is about, among many things, being faithful. cheating on your man with another woman is still infidelity and would be the same as doing the nasty with a different man, so yeah, it's still cheating.
    Voted for by NeferMaatNetjer.
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  • I hate subject lines
    Am I the only one thinking this guy wants a three way??? Ohh....and you USED to be bi..?? How so? Just because you are with a guy at the moment doesnt mean you are bi no longer.

    I think cheating is doing anything with someone youd want to do with someone your dating. Short of a hug or holding someones hand. Is your situation cheating? No not in my mind unless the other person or you are opposed. The idea that cheating is bad is based on someone getting mad that someones doing something with someone else and they didnt know it. Your situation seems as if your boyfriend is either really supportive or really turned on by it.
    Voted for by Stepherz804.
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  • Cheating
    If you are in a relationship with either a guy or a girl, kissing or flirting with anyone else is disrespectful, and depending on the extent of the relations, cheating. I believe that doing anything that you should be doing with your partner, if it is done with someone else, it is cheating.

    My girlfriend is bi, and if she was with someone else, either a guy or a girl, I'd consider it cheating.

    (And I don't mean hanging out with someone else. I mean as in things that should be done with your significant other)
    Voted for by maelstromxv.
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