Is this cheating
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NoIt's not cheating if the parties involved are aware of the situation and okay with it. Who's being CHEATED? No one. He's fine with it.38% Voted for by Weydon, bob2314, Seria-Evans, aria94, MarkusJ.
Of course this doesn't mean you SHOULD be doing it and are wrong for not wanting to. If you don't like the idea of involving yourself with anyone else in any from when in a relationship, then don't. Whatever you're comfortable with. -
I hate subject linesAm I the only one thinking this guy wants a three way??? Ohh....and you USED to be bi..?? How so? Just because you are with a guy at the moment doesnt mean you are bi no longer.15% Voted for by Stepherz804, Amphibolia.
I think cheating is doing anything with someone youd want to do with someone your dating. Short of a hug or holding someones hand. Is your situation cheating? No not in my mind unless the other person or you are opposed. The idea that cheating is bad is based on someone getting mad that someones doing something with someone else and they didnt know it. Your situation seems as if your boyfriend is either really supportive or really turned on by it.
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CheatingIf you are in a relationship with either a guy or a girl, kissing or flirting with anyone else is disrespectful, and depending on the extent of the relations, cheating. I believe that doing anything that you should be doing with your partner, if it is done with someone else, it is cheating.Voted for by maelstromxv.
My girlfriend is bi, and if she was with someone else, either a guy or a girl, I'd consider it cheating.
(And I don't mean hanging out with someone else. I mean as in things that should be done with your significant other) -
yeah, i would say sobeing in a relationship is about, among many things, being faithful. cheating on your man with another woman is still infidelity and would be the same as doing the nasty with a different man, so yeah, it's still cheating.Voted for by NeferMaatNetjer.
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Kissing other girls as a girl in a relationship with a guy is cheating.Kissing and touching other girls sexually as a girl in a relationship with a guy is cheating. I have been taught kissing anyone aother then your significant other(Minus family) is cheating even other girls. But my boyfriend encourages it.Voted for by Amazing Grace17.
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Not Cheating If Done Rightim in a serious relationship with a man. im bisexual. i am allowed to kiss and have sex with other women. the agreement is that sex is sex and being bisexual means there is a part of me he cant do anything about because he is a man. but emotionally we are only each others. our love and affections on that level are monogamous and beautiful. but when it comes to sex we know love only means so much.Voted for by Lady Nightshade.
he doesnt see it as cheating as long as it doesnt become a real relationship with the women because he can cater to those needs for me and i can cater his.every woman i have slept with knows this,and they know we can be friends with benefits but nothing more because i am in love with my boyfriend.
if he was bisexual and wanted sex with men i would be ok with it,under the same conditions.its just sex.
not cheating.not dirty.he knows every girl i have had relations with.and we love each other. -
Yes and No...dependsWhatever you consider the answer would be will be your answer. I can say that it would be considered as cheating while others would say otherwise, but the choice you choose is the answer to your own question. So if your current partner says it's not cheating but you feel otherwise then there's your answer.Voted for by HikaFuUmiShiOuRi.
People will view things differently, something minor like a kiss on the cheek may be viewed as cheating to others while another would contradict it as such.
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Its not cheating but...But it is extremely selfish would you not agree? Bisexuals in my opinion are people who don't know what they want so selfishly choose both being afraid to make a choiceVoted for by Society is Insanity.
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TeChNoWC
January 1, 2008
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June 19, 2008
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by all tecnicalaitys it's not...but right or wrong...well that all comeds down to you now doesn't itJanuary 1, 2009
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Cheating is only something not allowed in the relationship
Two people decide the limits of their relationship. Some guys don't care if their girlfriends give oral to another guy or girl, or whatever, as long as intimate sex doesn't take place, or a girl might not care if her husband has sex on the side because he's on the road a lot.Cheating is only when you do something your partner doesn't want you to do with another person, therefore the meaning of the word varies far and wide.
Lady Nightshade
January 3, 2009
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love is more important, we take the love we feel for each other very seriously. but because we are both young experimenting is not a problem.
Lady Nightshade
January 4, 2009
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yes bisexuals can have monogamous relationships.but this is our particular relationship.any one can be happy like this.our love is pure but we personally seperated sex after many months of being only with eacj other because i realised something about myself.
we have plans for the future,and in those plans are only each other.but for now,while we are both still young and i am just getting to grips with my own sexuality he is happy with this.
in his words 'its better to embrace it than to repress it and make it a forgotten part of yourself'
January 6, 2009
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Anyway, sorry for the rant, just thought that one could do with pointing out. =D
January 6, 2009
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Anyway, sorry for the rant, just thought that one could do with pointing out. =D
January 6, 2009
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Actually...
Actually I think it's worth pointing out that she did in an earlier post clarify that she is still in the process of discovering her sexuality and that her sexuality was not confirmed in her own mind 'until we were in a serious relationship'. It seems to me from this that it's not really as simple a question as 'having your need's met', but a case of her discovering who she is and not repressing a massive part of this for what seem to me some childish, control-freak-esq demands of someone else. And I don't really think either that just because he is her boyfriend it means he has this right. After all, if they go to be together for many years to come and then they break up, under these conditions her sexuality and notion of who she is in turn may well be sacrificed or at least damaged forever. I can really see where the guy is coming from tbh. Sexuality is a fundamental point to anyone's identity and comfortableness with it; ultimately her long term happiness. Imagine if it was made so that people weren't to be straight anymore! And I think that it's completely wrong for anyone else stand in the way or try to control it, no matter what their relationship is. Especially when it comes to someone just discovering who they are. It's certainly a bold move for them to take but I really wish then the best of luck in the future because tbh, it just makes sense.Anyway, sorry for the rant, just thought that one could do with pointing out. =D
January 6, 2009
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Actually...
Actually I think it's worth pointing out that she did in an earlier post clarify that she is still in the process of discovering her sexuality and that her sexuality was not confirmed in her own mind 'until we were in a serious relationship'. It seems to me from this that it's not really as simple a question as 'having your need's met', but a case of her discovering who she is and not repressing a massive part of this for what seem to me some childish, control-freak-esq demands of someone else. And I don't really think either that just because he is her boyfriend it means he has this right. After all, if they go to be together for many years to come and then they break up, under these conditions her sexuality and notion of who she is in turn may well be sacrificed or at least damaged forever. I can really see where the guy is coming from tbh. Sexuality is a fundamental point to anyone's identity and comfortableness with it; ultimately her long term happiness. Imagine if it was made so that people weren't to be straight anymore! And I think that it's completely wrong for anyone else stand in the way or try to control it, no matter what their relationship is. Especially when it comes to someone just discovering who they are. It's certainly a bold move for them to take but I really wish then the best of luck in the future because tbh, it just makes sense.Anyway, sorry for the rant, just thought that one could do with pointing out. =D
January 6, 2009
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Actually...
Actually I think it's worth pointing out that she did in an earlier post clarify that she is still in the process of discovering her sexuality and that her sexuality was not confirmed in her own mind 'until we were in a serious relationship'. It seems to me from this that it's not really as simple a question as 'having your need's met', but a case of her discovering who she is and not repressing a massive part of this for what seem to me some childish, control-freak-esq demands of someone else. And I don't really think either that just because he is her boyfriend it means he has this right. After all, if they go to be together for many years to come and then they break up, under these conditions her sexuality and notion of who she is in turn may well be sacrificed or at least damaged forever. I can really see where the guy is coming from tbh. Sexuality is a fundamental point to anyone's identity and comfortableness with it; ultimately her long term happiness. Imagine if it was made so that people weren't to be straight anymore! And I think that it's completely wrong for anyone else stand in the way or try to control it, no matter what their relationship is. Especially when it comes to someone just discovering who they are. It's certainly a bold move for them to take but I really wish then the best of luck in the future because tbh, it just makes sense.Anyway, sorry for the rant, just thought that one could do with pointing out. =D
August 6, 2009
ok now i've cleared that up...
he knows. its fine. live with it.
Weydon
August 6, 2009
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Just because I'm with a girl doesn't mean I'm not STRAIGHT. I'm with one person because I want to be, and because she wants me to be. Orientation has nothing to do with loyalty to a single person. I prefer brunettes, but I also sometimes like blonds. Does that mean its okay for me to pursue my interest in blonds since I'm with a brunette? "Just because I'm with a brunette, doesn't make me any less liking of blonds" ....
This is ONLY okay because the bf was okay with it. Just as it would hypothetically be "okay" for me to get with other girls if my gf was okay with it. The orientation has nothing to do with morality, just the agreement the couple has with each other.
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