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Virginity. It's over rated.

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    I am gonna say that virginity is totally not overrated. Also Im gonna say first before I continue that I am not a complete believer in all things god related and that I am in fact a 19 year old virgin. That being said....I think that sex is important in a sense. Of course you dont want to get married and realize your totally not compatible sexually BUT that can usually be fixed somehow. Trying different things. Counselors. I feel like once teenagers have sex that immediately connect it with love. Its a deep moment your sharing with someone. Do I think teenagers...those under 18 in my opinion... have the responsiblity and mind set that should be there for sex? Not anymore. Back in the old days they were ready. They were prepared and shipped off to make babies and get married. Now kids are made to be kids and have no more responsiblity than cleaning their rooms. I am neither for nor against it. Premarital sex that is. the world has two main ideas about sex. One that it is something to be shameful of and to hide and two that sex is the most important thing there is to life and connecting with a person. Toss that into a kids head and watch that spin. Sex is certainly a private thing but its nothing to be shameful of and thats what needs to be taught. Not that having sex before marriage will condemn you to hell. I choose at this point to remain a virgin until I am ready. If Im not ready till my wedding night then fine but Im not going out at this point looking for a lay. Nothing other than myself weighed in on my decision and that is also what needs to be taught. You are the only important decision maker in this situation. I think if you are ready for all the endless possibilites having sex...before marriage or not then go for it. I think its only a big deal because people dont want abortions and teenagers with babies. And that is a good thought but teaching nothing but virginity its gonna help those odds any. Sex does not equal love it equals an illusion of love in people.
    60%  Voted for by Stepherz804, mygeneration, Cube.
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  • It's important -- but not the end of the world.
    I've been a virgin for 18 years, and I planned to remain one until marriage. I found the man I wanted to marry -- so why not have sex with him before the vows are spoken? Virginity is over rated. When it comes to sex, I've found out that virginity is only 10% maybe of a sexual relationship. It's good to be a virgin couple and grow together during sex, which is what I and my fiance have been doing. I think if you want to have sex, have it! It's not the end of the world if you lose your virginity to a boyfriend/girlfriend!
    Voted for by xVowsareSpoken.
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  • It depends
    On your morals and how you value yourself
    Voted for by Carpool.
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