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Do men and wolves have something in common such as their mind?

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  meringue, Just for clarification the next time i hear a rap "artist" portray all women as bitches and hos should i think that is an accurate representation? If men are to be portrayed as conniving, hunters and attackers shouldn't the reverse demeaning stereotypes apply?

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    Xelgaroth
    February 23
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    Hmmm maybe guys but I think the stereotype that men are conniving wolves is a little more based on truth than the stereotype that women are bitches. I mean, when you look at crime rates, social organization, and just the way people look at the sexes, men do in fact seem to be, more often than not, insensitive, impulsive jerks. I'm not saying that they're ALWAYS like that, but I'd wager 7-8 times out of 10 that's the case for most guys. So, I think when you look at the stats of men and women, the stereotype of men as wolves is a little more accurate than the stereotype of women as bitches. I find women to typically be more agreeable, more reasonable, and generally nicer people all around than men, so, at least from my experience, men are, more often than not, indeed "wolves".
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    bob2314
    February 23
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    Remind me to tell you about my exwife sometime.
    There is one female who is a A#1 USDA certified BITCH. So if it is true in one case than all woman must be bitchs. After all she wolves are bitches. If i am to treat woman with respect than should't the reverse apply? if not why?
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      Xelgaroth
      February 23
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      I didn't say the reverse shouldn't apply; please do not infer implications where they cannot be found. I merely stated that the stereotype that men are wolves is MORE ACCURATE, not 100% accurate, than the stereotype that women are bitches.
      
      Look, would you disagree that if you were to walk out onto the street right now, that you are more likely to meet a mean male than a mean female? I think so.
      
      
      Of course that doesn't mean that men don't deserve respect. Nonetheless though I always warn my female friends to be wary of guys. I myself am a guy. I don't say men should be hated, or ostrasized; merely that they ought to be regarded with a little bit more wariness; case in point, a relationship. It is MORE LIKELY, not always certain, but more likely, that the guy is going to hurt (emotionally) the girl than the vice versa. More often than not, it is the guy who screws up. Therein, I contend that a man is more likely to be a wolf than a woman is to be a bitch.
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        Weydon
        February 24
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        No, in my experience women are more likely to be meaner and men to be easy going. Violent crimes tend be caused by males, true. But that's not what bitchiness is.
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        Molzahn
        February 25
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        if man is like a wolf, a woman is like a snake in the grass

        Gals do tend to have that outwardly dependant and socially smoother appearance to them... but I tend to see that some of them are the sluttiest, most treacherous, advantage grabbing, pricks I've ever encountered - my ex gf included!
        
        Some are so insecure that they start playing on other peoples desires to get where they want. Boys are egotistical, yes, but girls are damnright backstabbing. what we need in this world are more ladies and gentlemen,
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    Dwn
    February 24
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    either way you look at it, the morrality of both men and women decline at least one level per generation untill absolute coruption forces them to begin to turn back to God and the circle begins again, from faith to secularism and from secularism to faith
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      Weydon
      February 24
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      So your moral level is only one above mine? You must be an awful person!
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        Xelgaroth
        February 24
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        It's odd, Weydon, I have numerous female friends and it's always been my experience that they're much nicer, much more agreeable, murch more reasonable people than my male friends. Granted, there tends to be more drama and emotion with girls, but ultimately, most of the girls I know are all around nicer people than the guys I know-- most guys I know are jerks.
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          Weydon
          February 24
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          Well, all of my FRIENDS, boy or girl, are generally nice people. Maybe a little stubborn or outspoken in some, but they're all good people.
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            Xelgaroth
            February 24
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            Very well, let me rephrase. In general, the females that I come into contact with in my day to day life are more likely to be reasonable, argeeable, and overall nicer people than the males I regularly come into contact with. I think it depends on the demographics of your respective area. Around here, it seems, girls are nicer than guys.
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              Molzahn
              February 25
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              Aren't you from Canada? I myself live in the greater-toronto-area. So if the trends we see are different, I could easily argue that it would then depend on specifics of the demograph? say the individual people?
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                Xelgaroth
                February 26
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                Actually, no, I'm from the States, Molzahn. Virginia.
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                  Molzahn
                  February 26
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                  oh craziness, my mistake. but my point stays, specific people influence our interpretation of an area.
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    Dwn
    February 24
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    no weydon , there are exceptions to every rule , I know you well enough from on here that I do not doubt the integrity of your morral standards
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      Weydon
      February 24
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      ...you don't doubt that the integrity of my moral standards is TERRIBLE, don't you?
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    TeChNoWC
    February 25
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    Xelgaroth, I think you're analysis is very wrong. Both sexes have the ability to be very nasty, or very nice. It all comes down to the person. There are plenty of bitches out there, trust me.
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    pnktrky
    February 26
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    flawed statement nonetheliss but i would rather be a wolf than a bitch any day... than agian i do have a cetain fascination with wolves witch i cannot seem explain why? but according to my experience which i will go with lalf so lets say 2500 individuals who you see on a day to day basis, for atleast 6 months time. ofcourse the numbers are a little lower since i want to narrow it down to a more controled group. it seems to me that guys and girls seem to be more easy going amongs themselves although if left by themselves guys is a power struggle and girls an insane isolum (emotional drama lame pun + misspelling). but luckily there are male and females. guys on average 70-75 are deemed jerks for the greater part of their young lives... it seems that it takes a longer time for a guy to mature to a level where being jerks is no longer a consern. women on the other hand learn at a young age how to use other ppl to their advantage. therefore by playing innocent games also plaing with other ppl emotions. up front a guy would rather look tough and edgey while a girl would rather look pleasant and cheerful. also a girl is more likely to lie to feel better... and a guy is more likely to lie to look better. so although there is a tendency it is the upfront tendecy, their other ppl face that is not their true self which they show others not deemed worthy of themselves. sry thats how we all feel. therefore guys are more outwardly bad but woman are more inwardly bad. i have had a couple of extremes but those are extralinear points that dont matter for this discussion. so yes i would have to say that men a wolves and women are bitches for wolves already look threatening whether they are or not, and bitches look docile whether they are or not.
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      Xelgaroth
      February 26
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      "Women on the other hand learn at a young age how to use other people to their advantage. Therefore by playing innocent games also playing with other peopele's emotions."
      
      
      This sounds patently absurd. What evidence do you have to back this statement up, pnktrky? Women learn at a young age to use people? What are you basing your information on? It sounds to me like you're just pulling informatio nfrom the air. Give me some empirical information to suggest that women learn early on to use people to their advantage or play with people's emotions; that sounds absrud on the surface.
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    pnktrky
    March 1
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    yes i understand. im not saying that this is aalways true... ut may just be a minority. but either way this is a tendency that men seem to lack... they seem to prefer streangth and ability to control others. and my basis is that a good 10% of women i have ever known have been like this. not all women use these enate ability to hurt ppl selfishly. some use it spareingly only when they have to. its just that the effect this has both on them and on the guys is dramatic... therefore it has more wieght. atleast thats how i see it. but like i have always said... "there is always an exception." and the best you can make is most ppl "X." by the way i myself have found it odd to come to this conclusion considereing that men are the ones that tend to use women for selfish reasons.

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