There are 8 choices, 13 votes for Mujtaba H Zaidi's debate

What Will Happen If Lover/Beloved Dies?

  • don't know til you are tried

    you don't know your own strength til you are tried. some people are better in a year, beloved always a piece of them. others get terribly depressed and may try to die. therapy helps

    15%  Voted for by redbrita, Neko-Hikaru.
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  • i will die

    i cannot live without my friend who is my lover and i may die with him

    15%  Voted for by angelofnogood, Dancing Doll.
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  • ~TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES~

    I believe that if you we're to get married to your one true love and they we're to die I would never remarry. I will maybe be with someone else but never marry again. I feel that you only marry once in life and thats it. ~TRUE LOVE NEVER DIES~

    15%  Voted for by Lady Red, Emotions.
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  • well

    if i lose my beloved or anyone i love i will be strong as i always am and take my losing them gracefully. on the inside i will be crying and every night when i sleep i will cry and i will get into depressive moods because of it too. i hope to never lose my beloveds…

    Ash

    15%  Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi, ohsweetie2788.
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  • Mourning...

    I've lost my sister, and I could barely live without her... you see, she was my sister, my surrogate mother, my teacher, my idol, and my best friend. That was eight years ago... I still miss her and I get through life by cutting... but I'm getting better... especially with the help of my boyfriend...

    15%  Voted for by Silent Lullaby, Emotions.
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  • Oh No, Never Never........

    I will fall seriously ill even if I think of it….... Life will be colourless, drab, dismal, dull and defoliated if it so happens….!!!!!!!!

    Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi.
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  • I will mourn because

    I am selfish and wish him/her back with me. I will also rejoice in knowing it is only temporary and fulfills a need in all humans, to gain their spirit body back. We fight death, because we desire to live. Yet in death, we will once again live. I will mourn like my Bible says a husband should mourn: thirty days I will mourn and then I will either remarry or court another at that point, or stay single henceforth.

    Voted for by frndofyaweh.
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  • From Experience

    As a voice of experience...when your lover, companion dies, you think you will die, you want to die, you pray to die. It feels as if half of you has been ripped away and you are lost, lost, lost. You think of them every waking moment and when you do manage to sleep you dream of them. Your heart aches with unspeakable pain, your mind reels with dealing with the ubearable reality, your body craves their touch. You feel guilty that they are gone and you still live for you would gladly have given your life for theirs. You manage to survive by taking one breath at a time, one day at a time until as time goes by you find you can live an almost normal life. Though the pain is ever present with you and the loneliness that nothing or no one else can seem to fill. I am still dealing with her loss, but I realize life must go on, love is eternal and she will never really be completely gone. I hope that in time I will be able to love another just as I did her though her place in my memory and heart will never disappear. Losing the one you love is the most tragic of tragedies but the human spirit is strong and always reaches toward hope and happiness.

    Voted for by Don Juan Amante.
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