do you think he loves me?

i love him so you think he does!

He does

Honestly when I first started my relationship it was kind of like this. My boyfriend never really said he loved me. What you have to look at is they way he treats you. Some people show how much they love you with their bodies than there mouths, because to some people love is just a word and it’s meaningless but they still feel it. Look in his eyes next time you see him are they soft and gentle or harsh? When he talks to you is he patient, or rude? When he touches you is it kind or is it hurtful? Just remember just because its not said, doesn’t mean its not there, seeing and hearing isn’t always believing.
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- Eaven-Alexander
  April 14
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  and trust me on Perpetuals note, its true, ive had to go through the ordeal of her adjusting to it the WHOLE way through. just follow the body movents, and dont give him any slack with them. becuase hell do little things that shows exactly what he wants, trus tme.
- - PerpetualNight
    April 15
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    .... do you know something I don't?
  - Eaven-Alexander
    April 15
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    i know that im a guy, and that all guys are the same.
- lake of whispers
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  maybe we haven't much things in common.. but i love him for the one he is.
  and i guess he loves me after all
- lake of whispers
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  maybe we haven't much things in common.. but i love him for the one he is.
  and i guess he loves me after all
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Does It Feel Like Love?

I'm also a romantic person and I'm a guy so I may not have the opinion you're looking for, but from what you write it doesn't sound right.
What are the reasons you honestly think he was infuriated when you offered to live in his area?
Of course, everyone needs their privacy and maybe he just needed more space, but that doesn't seem to match up very well with what you want.
Long distance relationships can work, but only physically, not mentally or emotionally.
Either way, it all comes down to whether it FEELS like love or not. You have these questions in your head for a reason! Do not justify them because you love him. Get answers. Talk to him, its the ease of communication that makes love so beautiful. So if he's not communicating or it is in a cold and distant manner, then I think it definitely needs to be addressed.
Maybe there's something else going on in his life that's making him distant.

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Maybe

What do you love about him?

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lake of whispers
April 14
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everything ,i love about him..
even his disatnt manner that turns me crazy..
i support them because it comes from him.
if it were someone else i would leave him the day after.
but he.. is in my eyes my vision of love.. not my perfect vision, but my deepest love.
when he touches me.. i love so much , when i smell him and feel he's close to me.
when he tells me i am just crazy ,when he gets ungry than recall with a softer manner after..
Weydon
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I really can't say for sure as I don't know anything about you, but the way you describe it, it could either be infatuation or love. I hope you do not confuse them and let it blind you. You say he does things that if anyone else did you would leave them. I suppose that's true for me and people I love as well--but only because they've clearly earned my love and patience and devotion. Not just because they smell nice and seem to stop my mind and heart short when I look at them (which is an amazing and wonderful feeling). But because on top of that they've been thoughtful and tender and compassionate and passionate and patient and understanding and open and honest and trusting and trustworthy.

I don't mean to give a lecture here, I just don't want you turning your mind and stomach in knots over something that may be partially created in your mind. If you do love him on top of loving to breathe him in, just continue talking with him--just also be patient. Ask him if there's a reason he seems so distant sometimes and, if he's afraid of getting too close, etc and be willing to accept any answer. Explain to him how you feel about it all, without seeming like your complaining. And, while you should keep talking about it, don't KEEP talking about it, if you know what I mean. If you love him there must be things you love doing with him besides saying I love you back and froth--remember to enjoy them, and to SHOW him (not tell him) that he loves doing those things too.

I once told a girl I loved her after going out for a few months, and she explained to me that she couldn't bring herself to say that just yet but that she really did find me amazing and all (who wouldn't, after all??). And I seriously was fine with that. I wasn't telling her that so she could say it back and we could act out all the romantic scenarios I see in the movies, and I could announce to people that we were in love. I just wanted her to know how I felt, because I simply had to. I was more than happy to stay with her for a while and either have her say it to me, get dumped, or break up with her. No one knows what the future holds, I just knew I was happy--and as long as your happy and honest (and treated with dignity and respect), that's all that should really matter.
lake of whispers
April 15
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heyyyyyy answer please so important more than the question to be or not to be!