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how do you want your woman to bring you to the 7th sky when having sex? i mean the things you like
don't be shy.. men be true, i don't know you.
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  • Hmm
    lol I would, but I know a few people on here (my brother included).

    So to spare people the most gory details, I will keep it fairly mild.

    I like to take things long and slow, neck kisses are particularly nice (softly biting perhaps). A massage is often a nice way to start, but doesnt always have to lead to sex.

    I love music, but I fear if I was to listen while doing the deed, I would listen too intently rather than actually making the sex. I would hate to make the girl feel second place compared to the music (even though that is so the case).

    Voted for by petethemeat.
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  • umm
    I dont really do the whole woman thing but like pete said, lots and lots of foreplay. the act is just as good, if not better than the climax.
    Voted for by Kazrith.
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  • Open and comfortable
    As said already, foreplay is of course important. Quickies are fun and I doubt I'd turn one down in most any circumstance, but everything else makes it phenomenal.

    Also I like for us both to be completely comfortable with each other: Ask for exactly what you want, take it how you want it, turn down something you're not liking, at least a little openness to new things. That's the best way to get to know each other sexually, and to discover new things about yourself as well.

    As for SPECIFICS, I'd feel a little awkward getting into too much detail, and it probably breaks some rules anyway lol
    Voted for by Weydon.
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