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Think again womenVoted for by SleepyKitty.
"Q: Do women really have better sex as they get older? A: For the most part, yes. But the reasons are psychological, not physical. Many teen and twenty-something women are so riddled with body-image problems and the desperate need for male approval that we have a hard time lying back and enjoying ourselves. Also we're often not honest with our partners, or ourselves, about what we need in order to get fully aroused and have an orgasm. By the time our thirtieth birthday rolls around, we're usually more comfortable in our own skin. We're no longer nervous about taking control or making specific requests in bed. As a result, sex gets better and better. So at just about the time guys' sex drives start slowing down, we start wanting sex three times a day. It's a damn shame."-http://www.menshealth.com/cda/article/0,2823,s1-2-0-0-87-4-2X4X6X9X12X15X18X21X24X27-11,00.html
Towards the bottom of the page on the above website.
Many females tend to think that women are the ones with self image issues, Which tends to be a common myth.
Just like women men also have these kinds of anxiety such as whether they are physically fit enough to attract women, or physically attractive enough to appeal to females.
Don't beleive me? then why don't you take a look at your good 'ol male freind from elementary school, yes he was fairly cute back then but now when you look at him, he's so hot and muscular from working out that you feel like your in love with him.
And why did he suddenly bulk up after junior high? Because he is under the notion that women are attracted to muscular men, which they are.
And If you've ever been to high school did you ever notice guys who sat up against the wall during lunch all by them selves?
Did you ever stop to wonder why?
Well now you don't need to just remmeber what there faces looked like, sad, depressed, and flat mood, and because no girls are interested in them thats why they become depressed.
And on a very sad side note women are more likely to attempt suicide, thats when you actually fail to kill your self (this is mainly due to the fact that they just want to be noticed, and don't really want to kill them selves) where as men are 4X times more likely to perform suicide (this is due to the fact that they no longer feel that any one wants them around any more and use deadly methods which asure the likelyness of not surviving)
Unlike females that take on average 36 months after the start of depression before they attempt suicide.
Males however take only 12 months after the start of depression before suicide, and many of there freinds will say that they would have never thought he would ever kill himself (primarily because men tend to think that it's only their direct problem and that no one else has any business to know about it)
So you females better get out there and start asking those guys out that you like, and who cares if you don't think their worth it, if you love them then you wouldn't care what they looked like.
And people wonder why women will outnumber men 4 to 1
Most common cause of death in males: suicide Cause: Depression Cause of depression: feelings of unattractiveness to females Cause of destructive feelings: Where in some way denied by female (either by face to face rejection, or by the fact that they have never had a girl be attracted to them before)
Sorry But it's all true, I should know It's been 10 months for me already.
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May 11, 2005
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May 12, 2005
God damn scrap!
You actually are pretty smart to figure that out. !But there's one problem! Any person male/female (doesn't matter) when they become depressed the emit like you said a kind of negative atmosphere, The reason I became depressed is that no females are interested in me, so if I project this negative atmosphere, females will like me even less causing my depression to become even worse which in turn will cause females to not even want to be around me at some point and when that happens, you mine as well just send flowers for my funeral, cause if females don't start trying to cheer depressed men, we mine as well just launch our nuclear atomic fission bombs at russia so that they can retaliate and we can just kill ourselves cause thats where were heading if females don't start doing that. !AND THE SAME TO YOU LAZY ASS MALES AS WELL!May 12, 2005
May 13, 2005
You are very wise scrap, actually
But of course most people are to deep into their depression to actually realize that things will turn out better sooner or later, because their main thought just becomes that what ever is depressing them becomes their main thought and every thing else like freinds relatives and so on become secondary thoughts that they don't pay attention to, so they only focus on that one thing, and their primary thought is, "It didn't happen before why would time heal it now?" I know that time will never heal mine, but for some reason I never get more depressed than this to do anything rash, It might be because of the fact that I've seen to many people die and have experienced to much saddness that I no longer can become any sadder than I already am, If you want proof, the here you go. My girlfreind actually left me last sunday and I was I love with her enough that I would have done anything for her even give my own life if I needed to but when she broke up with me, I just shrugged my shoulders and just said "whatever", whether this is normal I don't know, I always seem to have a flat mood but I'm not completely sad inside like as if I was depressed enough to kill my self.May 14, 2005
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*And I agree completely with both of you. It’s good that you’re still alive, the world need smart people like you.* yeah we are running out on smart people but not dumb:%i checked the stock book:))April 13, 2007
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Female sexual dysfunction
Unfortunately, much of the unhappines in the world is due to female sexual dysfunction. Ironically this is due to generations of programming and manipulation inculcated by male dominated society.The idea that women shouldn't have casual sex when men can isn't instinctive at all. It comes from the fact that over the millennia, society has closed ranks to discourage women from enjoying themselves. Alpha males, eager to ensure that it was their baby that their women was bearing and not their competitors, have traditionally policed female sexuality, putting on the legal, moral and societal pressure. The result is women feel guilt when men don't.
Finally, men must let females select their mates based on their criteria, however skewed it may be. Whether or not a male and female participate in sex depends primarily on the females desires and her acceptance of the male. This has been natures way for millions of years.
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