A question to all males here; what is it you like about women? What do you think about women comparing themselves to tiny models and pretty actresses? What matters more; inside or outside?
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Both matter28% Voted for by bury me smiling, jonesz12, SleepyKitty, anitakrish, ThreeDaysGone. (7 total)
What matters more? Well all in all you need to realize both are important. Physical attraction is not something that can just be dismissed by most people, yes even women. No matter who you are, you aren't going to date the ugliest guy in the world, no matter how great he is on the inside, just like I won't date the ugliest girl on the planet no matter how great the personality. But also I will not date the meanest, dumbest, or bitchiest girl on the planet no matter how attractive she is. There needs to be both inside and outside on a girl for me to want to be with them. What's more important? Probably inside just because outer attraction is like the first test. Once you pass that test, which many girls can, the inside is what matters. No guy is going to break up with you after 3 months just because you are not pretty enough. And if he does, he's not that great on the inside so you should be getting rid of him anyway. Looks are the bubble burster, once bursted, it's all inside that matters. But if you can't get by the first bubble, good luck to you.
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Gods Greatest Gift To Us...8% Voted for by VitreousSoul, Gullible.
Women are the most beautiful creation on God's green Earth. Sadly though many today are mind set to look a certian way or act a certain way. And to many guys nowadays tend to take advantage of women and leave them with broken hearts, something now women deserves. The most beautiful things about women are not found through socity's view of them. Its found in themselves: their warming smile, their calming voice, their elegant walk, their euphorious eyes, this list could go on and on but that would be a rather long list. Gouys take a note from another guy, Stop for a moment and look at the next women that passes you by, and I mean look don't 'check them out' look at them and you might be shocked to see how strong and beautiful she really is. And to the women out there who are worried about their appearence or shy or what ever, If you can just be you and accept the beauty that is your birth right as a women. You'll soon relize those little models and actresses are 'visually appealing' yes, but they have become so at the cost of letting their true beauty show.
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What I like1) I like that you are a Virgin. Think about it. Would a man like it if you are the second, third, fourth, etc.. to become one flesh with this person? It is a lot more pleasing to know that this woman had absolutely no sex, and saved it for YOU. That's right, YOU! She lived 18 and beyong years without giving into her sexual desires, just so you could be the one to take away her virginity. Such a consept gives me almost eternal joy.8% Voted for by Doom Pickels, Gullible.
2)I like a submissive wife. You can call me sexist, but think about it. I will not be perfect. I will screw up. I will not always be able to talk nicely to her, and we will fight. It's part of the sin cursed world we live in. If I'm irrate, I simply can't talk sweetly to her at the moment. If I'm in a rush, I can't say please or thank you all the time. She can choose to either be submissive, and let my day go easier. (Like getting a hammer even if I ask her rudely, fixing me breakfast if I didn't ask at all, over looking my transgressions, etc) then My repect for her will grow even more. No sane man in this world owuld ever just like a submissive woman. Normal men DESIRE them. They are perfect. they will do whatever you tell them, and in turn, you will work harder to try and please them back. What kind of man wants to put bread on the table for a woman who always argures back. What man loves a woman who always talks back if you don't talk to them "correctly". What kind of man loves a woman who wont help you through tough times, or when work is making you weak. Women who help their husbands is someone everyone (exept feminists) should respect. As they go against their flesh, and do what God designed them to do. Help men, and praise God. You can call me sexist, but I do believe that woman are EQUAL with men, but are dessigned to have a different purpose in this life. They are designed to do different things and handle different amounts of stresses.
Woman make a great impact. I've noticed that more work gets done when a man works and a woman is helping him be alleviating stress, and helping him get the stuff that he needs to get it done. Rather than both a man and a woman working. And they are BOTH happier.
3) I like women who take care of themselves. That would eat right. And doesn't vegitate. As any person who keeps themselves healthy is beautiful.
4)I like a wife who doesn't weak makeup. Don't hide your natural beauty. You shouldn't be insecure. You look better without it. And it's easier to kiss you if you dont have lipstick or blush on. =P
5)A wife who is a Good stewart with the money I provide. She wont splurge it all away on fancy stuff. And won't nag me for not getting enough money =P
6)A wife who doesnt show herself off. I don't want a women who shows all her clevage! What the heck! Are you trying to make us undress you with our eyes? You make men devalue women by doing so. SO many times I hear "Men are just like that", btu WHAT THE HECK! We are surrounded by models who show more skin then cloth. How does a guy respect a women who doesn't show respect for herself? This causes men to slowly loose their natural respect for women. And slowly, men become lust addicted. And no longer look at women as valuable. This is sad. As men are too often scoffed at for being disrespectful. When it was the women who caused younger men to loose their respect for women.
7)A woman who respects God. Who will read the biblle with me. Who I can have conversations with. Someone I can just LOVE because she LOVES God every bit as much as I do. -
3 opinions from friends cuz i am a girl, lol8% Voted for by ohsweetie2788, Fire Raven.
i am a girl but i asked three of my guy friends and this is what i got...
guy 1: i like women who are honest, it is not right to compare yourself to someone who may not be too great a person, i thnk the inside is important but the outside helps me make my move towards the inside.
guy 2: i hate it when women compare themselves to models, because i don;t even find the majority of them attractive, they are too skinny, the inside matters so much more to me than the outside does, i prefer women with dark hair too, just as a side note.
guy 3: inside wins hands down. yes appearence matters to me but it is no wear near as important as who you are. people are who they are because of how they are not what they look like, not how thin they can manage to get.
those were the 3 opinions i got...i was shocked at the answers and thought i would share with everyone...i seem to have 3 great friends according to their views...
~Ash~
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Each woman is a beautiful package.8% Voted for by word warrior, Fire Raven.
Women are great. They give the flavour and add taste to men's straight style. It's like a castle with many gates. One stops at a position suitable for oneself. Some stop at beauty. Others peer deeper. Appearance matters. It's the first port of entry. Men are generally visual beings. When a woman is attractive, they move on to discover her other qualities, until they get to the innermost details. Maybe not all men reach that stage. But everything about them attracts. Their curvy looks mesmerize. Their care soothes. Some have voices that melt the stoniest hearts. Their carriage. A woman's love could get so strong. It's a gamut of factors. People have their favorites. But alltogether, women (except a very few) are just bundles of goodies. I guess that's just why we just love them.
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each has its purpose8% Voted for by conspiracy of one, Gullible.
apperances and personality both have their purposes in my oppinion. appearances get the person to notice them and actually do something too get to know them better. from there, it's the personlity that makes you go insane over them. the eyes catch your heart and make you think about them constantly. when you look into their eyes, you feel things you never would feel through their words. so appearances and personality go together.
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A difference of opinon8% Voted for by verses on flesh, Compsnake.
Both are important on many levels. Looks, and personality are equal, but what you have to take into consideration is that not all guys are interested in those tiny models. I like curves. Real ones, not speed bumps. If a woman is not like a size ten or up my chances of noticing her and recognizing her as not only beautiful but someone I would be interested in intimately are slim to none.
Not everyone is the same, if they were what would be the point of showing off those tiny anorexic 14 year olds anyway? There wouldn't be one, because we would all be the same and no one would care.
The trick is not to fit a stereotype of what magazines say a woman should be, the trick is to find the man who loves what you are.
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What Men LikeWe all like different things.8% Voted for by endsofbread, Gullible.
And for the record, every single person is breathtakingly beautiful.
There are some amazing and cute concepts that follow everyone.
It doesn't matter if a girl has mosquito bite tits and a saggy ass.
There are certain things we assign to extraordinally beautiful people (symmetry, proportion), but everyone has unique traits that make them astonishing to look at and intriguing to talk to.
Cultures are different and everyone is different.
What I look for most is a girl's attitude and how she composes herself. I can be turned off by a girls' body, but her sexy attitude can drive me wild.
I know what I look for and what my buddy looks for is something completely different.
"What men like?" will only get a generic and boring answer. Every guy is different. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
For me, if a woman unhealthily compares herself to a model then that is a complete turnoff to me in the way I see her attitude and how she composes herself.
Also, inside matters a million times more. The body fades, the sex dwindles, and hair falls out. But if I can have a best friend to talk to all my life, thats what matters. -
Outside wins without a questionVoted for by stone1981.
I feel that all those expressing opinions that they see the inner personality are lying , i tell you , it is more than twice that you see a girl and analyse her figure , thats the way to move forward with her . I have done it thatr way , and she did it the same way . U get a chance for the interview for a job -is the thing, what happens thereafter is up to u- simple enough
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EyesVoted for by brimstone.
I like eyes. I truly felll in love 3 times, and it was alwayz after eye contact. Unfortunately teh stroy goes as it goes... Women eyes allways tell me something different then mouth. If you want to crush some poor guy into yourself just fish for his eye contact and don't forget to smile.
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VulnerabilityAt a moment of vulnerability a tiny momentary break in a woman's facade allows her Real truth, beauty and eternal innocense to shine forth in the Real world. Those are the times in my life that has made living worth it.Voted for by Brew Kline.
[I'm listening to Air Supply's "All Out of Love" while having written this] -
Appearance is important but...Voted for by rob7.
Men are hardwired to notice exremely subtle differences in the female form and if we weren't that picky then any warm blooded animal would give the right pleasurable sensation and satisfaction.Be grateful we are discerning towards the ladies or else the human race would had been long extinct.LOL!Like the others have said beauty is the attractor but personality is the keeper.If your beautiful but act like Gods gift to humanity then that'll turn me right off.I'll screw you but I won't give a damn about you.You'll just be a masterbatory tool.It's the personality that you learn to love and care about.The good news is that men are attracted to slim bodied women which means women have complete control over thier bodies if they choose to take that control.I go to the gym 4 days a week and watch what I eat and the ladies that do the same have their pick of the men.The type of body you have is completely up to you.All you have to do is put in a little effort and you'll have them lined up taking a number.
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January 23, 2006
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...Agree and Disagree...
I agree with you on the whole inside and outside deal really I do. And your right about how you should have a balance in both. I'm a girl and I wold have to disagree on the ugliest... part. yeah I guess most peploe wouldn't and all but then agin you have to understand that what you this is ugly someone else may thing is breath taking...I gues what Im trying to say in this is that I agree with all you said and the uglyiest past I agaree but like I said it depends on what you you think is ugly and beautiful.But thats just me.February 7, 2006
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I agree
I agree with you on the whole "ugly" deal. It just depends on the person.Please register or login to comment! It's totally free