Because you have a bunch of people saying i love you to get into bed with people. Love shouldnt be used to pawn people around like chess. It has the power to build and yet destroy. People throw it around because they are immature, and only think of themselves. Yet if they started to thikn about other people they wouldnt be playing a game to win for themselvrs but they would be playing a whole new game to help others out. People or position themselves like in chess. You move a peice so u can take a opponents(sp) peice in chess. Well people do that with love.. They turned it into a big game. "can i possition myself to take something or gain an advantage"

What can i get for me Right now no matter what the case may be.. It cant be this way.. it has to be what can i do to help someone and if i get something its not a big deal..

people throw around love like a big game cause they think they can get something right there and now. But most of all people throw love around like a game becasuse they are immature

That's a good question why do people think that love is a game Maybe because they don't fully understand the concept of true love. Maybe they are confuse about what love is truly about Maybe they have no care in other people feelings and use love as a game to be a playa well... This is a topic I should be able to tell you why people use it as a game because I once...Maybe twice did myself the only reason I did it was just for the popularity and feeling of stardom to be known as that girl who had them all I use to play up to five boys at the same time when I was around 11 and 12 I know what you're thinking 'That's pretty young' but I was pretty fast I'm now 17 and now that I look on my past I see now that it was all un-call for and mean and un-caring to have did what I did. now I don't have anybody in my life to call my own days I feel like I'm all alone which is pretty much true some of them fought out about my cheating and deceiving ways some just up and left some just didn't want to be bother and I don't blame them it was my stupid game that got me in this mess if I could send out one advice I would tell everyone...

"To not make love out into a game because your the only one at the end getting played"

I will never play another soul again I have learn my lesson I never told anyone about this so I guess this is my Confession to the world or at least to allphilsophy

-Raneika

A great deal have actually had their hearts broken before and decided the whole thing was stupid. Others may have just personally come to the conclusion. Others may just be arrogant and selfish. Maybe their mommy or daddy didn't hug them enough. Who knows, when you're getting that far into it? What makes anyone anything, you know?

Some people are scum. It's important to remember that before allowing yourself to be so into someone. Sad and perhaps jaded, but true.

Love is a word. (shrug)

I'm not bigging up 'team love' much anymore Forgive me.

if love is a game or people regard it as such, it is crucial to find people who agree on the rules. For there is no game without rules or am I wrong?