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females...13% Voted for by Netanya Shull, Scrap, sekmhet eye of ra, Aurielle, ohsweetie2788.
i think it is harder ot be attractive as a female. you have to always look just right and you have to be clean yet look like you can have fun and you have to be just the right size or you aren't even noticed plus you have to be nice and seem to need help yet be independant at the same time. men have it so much easier, you just don't know what women go through (as a whole not individually) to look the best they can.
~Ash~
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male13% Voted for by jonesz12, suicide risk, SleepyKitty, metal15, ExpensiveThinker.
I'd say guys are easier to please so, it's harder to be attractive as a male.
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Cultural blue-print10% Voted for by Lord Abortion, SleepyKitty, Philosophical-Pug, nanoinfinity.
Our culture 'sells' us certain ideas on what is attractive about men and women. Under this system, women certainly seem to have stricter criteria, although this seems to be changing recently. When you get down to individuals though, people seem to find each other irrespective of what society says is attractive or not. Beauty, they say, is in the eye of the beholder.
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equally difficult10% Voted for by Fictional-Being, LoveTripper, Awakened One, nanoinfinity.
i think that in the american society, it is equally hard for both genders to remain a sort of attractiveness. especially now. for now, women are still struggling to be thin, and remain 'not too thin', and have the right amount of muscles in the right places, and the right amount of skin to be covered, and the right amount of makeup, etc. but for men, they must be physically fit, masculine, have the right voice, the right walk, the right clothes to wear that look good, and yet look like they didn't have too much thought put into them (for they can't be called -gasp- gay), etc. so for as long as people remain with a sense of sight, it will be equally as hard for the genders to add up to one another.
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Way easier for women7% Voted for by rob7, Weydon, Dwn.
An average women can approach 10 average guys and ask them if they want to have sex and she'll get,minimum 9 yes.
An average guy approaches 10 average women and asks if they want to have sex and he'll get,minimum, 2 kicks in the nuts,4 slaps in the face,6 WHAT?!?!,and 10 NO!
Believe me its much easier being a woman.I'm a guy and wish I was born a woman.Life is waaaaay too frusterating as a guy.
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what is an attractive man?5% Voted for by halfabee, Insertnamehere.
the media makes it plain what is an attractive woman, even if it is unrealistic, but there is little explaination of what is an attractive man.
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Male by FAR!!5% Voted for by neptune, Free Verse.
okay, any chick, and I mean ANY chick can just walk up to a guy and say "Hey hottie, I'm horny let's go get wet" and chances are, he's up for it! The only exceptions are; if the guy's truly loyal to his wife/girlfriend, if the guy's gay, or if the chick just doesn't match that guy's personal tastes (in which she can just turn around and ask guys until one says yes). Guys on the other hand, if they try that, they get sewed for sexual harrassment. Think about it, I'm not the world's most beautiful girl, but I'm out the door literally five minutes after I get up, and I STILL seem to be on fire! lol, not to be conceided or anything... Then my brother in law, well, he take FOREVER to get ready! Things are changing rapidly in this world, where men used to complain about how women spend endless hours in the bathroom getting ready, it's not flipping backward for some people. Yes, it's true, women do Work Harder to look good, but most of us, if not all of us, really don't need to. We can get sex so easily, and love... well, finding love is difficult for everyone, even the most beautiful of people; case in point: Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt.
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It dependsVoted for by -TheLoneWolf-.
It depends on the person. I think that for both males and females it doesn't take alot to be attractive.
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FemalesVoted for by twistedstranger.
Guys have their hair, clothes, and hygene. Women have a range of things from make-up to pedicures and sexual attire and even though you have to work harder as a woman, they still have more control of their physical apperance.
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femaleVoted for by catseyes2468.
i think female bacause i know for a fact women are atracted to a veriaty of males i personaly am not attracted to the classic "good looking male" but any way i asked 4 guys what they find attractive on women and 3 said big breasts nice bum and a pretty face
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It's Harder for UsVoted for by tearsarenotenough4u.
Well it's hard to be attractive as a female b/c men are always looking at us like a peice of meat. Men constantly check women out, women don't really check men out that often, Men always have sex on there mind there for they are always shopping for meat. It's way harder for women.
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women ofcourseVoted for by Aurielle.
I think its harder to be both because for a man they have to get abs and muscles and nice hair while woman have to have boobs and a big but and wear makeup along with their hair and nails and cothes and shoes. This cost tons of money.
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menVoted for by Crazyhead.
i think it's harder to be attractive as a man... women are naturally beautiful... men are (usually) only considered attractive with a nice face, and just the right amount of muscle... beauty is natural, muscle is not...
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EASY FOR BOTH MEN AND WOMEN!Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi.
When Cupid throws its arrow at its prey,all attraction and basic rules of beauty goes to dashes and and the eyes of lover only know making love, not the beauty and attraction. And each and every person is the beloved of at least one lover; either black or white,short or tall,thick or thin, cute and ugly etc etc. Every one obtains his/her own criterion of beauty.So both male and female r attractive and pretty..~!!!
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...Voted for by RothMcVeReagan.
some of these people that say it's harder to be more attractive as women are annoying...i agree, it's harder to be more attractive as women, but you don't HAVE to look like that, no one is forcing you...and since no one is forcing you, you can't complain, not with a good reason anyway. my sister always wears high heals and when she gets home she complains forever, and says i don't know how hard it is...if its so damn hard DONT WEAR THE STUPID THINGS!!! women act like they have it bad, when men hold open doors, hold out chairs, men aren't supposed to hit women, and they have it SO bad
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TV has some truthVoted for by VanitaVarsha.
think about it in the way of tv. you always seen some 'fat' guy with this gorgeous women. the guy is a pig and annoying and the lady is nice and practical. chicks being hot is more important than guys. ugly guys are thought of as having an inner beauty, chicks are thought of as bring only beautiful on the inside when they are beautiful on the outside. this sucks- but true.
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Media ContributionVoted for by Awakened One.
I think it's hard for both males and females. But harder for the females. This is all due to the media. The media controls a large part of what we think and value. For instance, look at your local magazine vendor at magazines like cosmo for instance. All the girls in there are pretty much skinny girls with eating disorders, or they're plastic, etc. Most people go by the medias idea of attractive. This puts a lot of pressure on the women of society, not just to look anorexic and perfect, but to take extreme pride in their appearance. It's a shame so many girls think they have to be skinny as twigs to be attractive. As for the guys, look at the magazines with guys in them, they usually all have six packs and such. They all usually look like they spend too much time working out.
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disgustingVoted for by fallenangel006.
I find that most pictures i see in magazines are just digusting. The women are stick thin and all you can see is skin and bones and the men are waaayyyy to buff and personallly I think that's disgusting. But i think that there are more qualitys women have to live up to too be considered "beautiful". This "beautiful" image may become more attainable or less. Personally I think there should be some regulations on the media. Letting them only show women (and men) of a certain weight on T.V. After all about 300000 people (mostly women) die from eating disorders each year. These eating disorders are driven by the disire to be thin which is premoted by the media.
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For FemalesVoted for by Stumbled Into God.
It's hard for females because guys aren't expected to go through pain to look nice and guys aren't expected to stay younger looking for so long. theres also a lot less sex selling in adverts for girls meaning females are exploted more which is unfair and gives men false ideas of females meanting to look so unnatural with dolly makeup on.
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Hell I Don't know.Voted for by SleepyKitty.
Personally on my biased opinion it is harder to be attractive as a male than female cause in being a males we believe that females are more attracted to males that are good looking, good personality, and muscular.
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