What I believe is that it's been to love and loose than to never have loved at all. I'd rather go through a lot of heartbreaks and learn a bunch of lessons about love... than go into the perfect relationship and screw it up because of little to no experience. Remember, practice makes perfect. So, please don't fret when you break up or just loose someone near and dear. It's been to have loved and not have been or have been love back ... than just to remain dormant. It's much more fun...

Love=pain=death=life

Love only leads to pain. That I have learned for myself. My quest for love has left me empty...barren to the utter reaches of my soul. I have wasted many thoughts, many hours on those who I have made the objects of my affections...but they have rarely returned me those things I gave up so freely. Pain eventually leads to death. Physical? Perhaps not...but emotionally, spiritually...yes. But death gives way to life...because love is a continual cycle...a dirty...filthy cycle that none can escape.

For the longest time I have given up on love ( a statement that some may find blasphemous). I had gotten to the point where love was not an option...and at the same time...it was the only thing that could redeem me.

I ( like many others) follow a certain cycle. I fall past the point of redemption...I become broken...I fall again...it is a cruel, cruel...cycle...

How does one really validate love? It is impossible to live with or without it.

I have recently found what I durst not say is love...it is comfort...but not love...

I have given up on the kind of love that stops at being just platonic...there is only physical love.

Love: def 1. Physical pleasure. def 2. emotional pain. def 3. A strong liking of. def 4. *UNDEFINED*

when you are in your dakest hour and you do not seem to think you will go on love will help you. i have been depressed i have been suicidal and one person pulled me out of all of it becuase i loved him and he oloved me. yes you can get hurt if you fall in love but you can hurt doing anything these days and love is totally worth the effort you put into it. especially if love produces children and a happy home. love is a new adventure and is worth every second you put into it.

A great many people have been there. Currently I'm in a stage which I rather enjoy: where I really don't care that much. I went from feeling emotionally shattered, to emotionally dead, to becoming more myself again only jaded, to slightly less jaded, to simply not caring anymore. This final stage had by far been the best one for me. I can go out and have fun and not worry about silly things that matter nowhere near as much as I built them up to be.

The only real problem is that I've been in such a good mood for so long that I'm practically like my wide-eyed naive self from a few years back and occasionally find myself fondly toying with the idea of deep, movie, BS romance and drama. Perhaps it's still my jaded side coming back, but I like to remind myself that I'm building an idiotic trap for myself. I still believe in love, but I won't be so foolish as to allow myself to fall for someone simply because I'm feeling like I want to fall in love again at some point. I realize now that love is far more complicated than mooshy feelings and excitement and imaginary conditions to trick myself into thinking I have something that was never there to begin with.

Love doesn't come and go, if its there its there, Love has a tendancy to stick around for a long time, it causes people to act like they wouldn't normaly, to be think of the one they Love or other before them selves, and posibly to give up ones self so that others can live, Love can hurt...but sticking through what ever trouble is there makes you stronger for it, giving up at the first sign of touble never gets you anywhare...but Love only hurts for moments, which could be years, but in the end the reward is far greater.

right now i'm in a position i thought i'd never be in. I agree that is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, and i agree that love is always there once it comes. but my true belief there is one and only one person that comes into your life that shows you and gives you what true love is and is your soulmate. and if you truely love the person and truely believe that they are the one, even in seperation you'll wait for their return even into the beyond if it takes that long. i know that makes someoen sound obsessed but obsession ends love never does. i'm not saying don't move on with your life but i'm one of the ones that waits in return of their love. and trust me the longer the wait the sweeter the reward.

If you don't fell love for some one, then its not really worth the time, now is it? If you fell like you love some one more then anyone else, then you have true love.

If you are selfless, and have selfless love to offer, then it is worth everything. The wonderful feelings, and the pain... Just to be able to love in itself is great.