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You can't help this12% Voted for by StarWarsJunkee, flipflopinTM, cosmosis, normality, bob2314. (8 total)
I think that gays and lesbians not being allowed to become married is totally idiotic! You cannot help who you fall in love with, it's not like you just up and decide...hmmmm I wanna be homosexual!, It's crazy
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sure10% Voted for by Kazrith, deadly kisses, RavensHeir11, Random Lily, cosmosis. (7 total)
homosexuality is quite fine with me. i think if you love someone, there should be no limits to it (this is adult to adult mind you). sex is just something that every human and every animal does even if they are hetero/homosexual. and think about it, some things that a staight person does will discust another. its just one of those known facts. besides, who cares what people do in their own homes.
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People are people.10% Voted for by The Great Anthonius, deadly kisses, Random Lily, cariniabean, decoupage-dish. (7 total)
I don't know if I can explain my opinion clearly enough for others to understand, but here goes:
I believe that there is no such thing as a heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual or any other sort of social lable. Sex is natural. It is animal nature - not just human nature. I also believe that humans are attracted to people. Period. Personal views may skew this a bit, meaning that if you are "homophobic," you are probably less likely to fall in love with a man (assuming you are male). In the same respect, if you are racist, you aren't very likely to fall in love with someone of another race. If you are religious, you are less likely to marry someone of a conflicting religion. I know there are differences between gender, race, and religion, but it's the closest example available.
Hetero-sex to perpetuate the race is nature and evolution working at their best. That's the natural half of attraction. However, because we are humans and we have large brains that think to allay boredom, we also have psychological rules of attraction. That is not to say that someone is metally unbalanced if they are homosexual. *It means that we are attracted to people for more than purely reproductive reasons.* We love our mates even when they are not the "pick of the litter," a purely human trait and against all rules of evolution. I believe that you really love someone for who they are. You are attracted by the person and anything that can make a woman fall in love with a man can make a woman fall in love with another woman. Social stigma determines what that amounts to.
*Personal example
I love my husband very much. Before I met him, I had been attracted to mostly males. However, there was one girl in high school I was infatuated with. I thought she was beautiful and all I wanted to do was kiss her. I am getting shivers just thinking about her. Of course, she was way out of my league. While I am generally not attracted to women, I *am* generally attracted to personalities like hers, male or female. Because I am very open minded, I did not have any social stigma to attach to that attraction. If I decided at that point to start dating more women, that would not have suddenly meant I was "gay," but that I was attracted to those people. I wouldn't have been dating them because they were women, but for who they are.I hope I have gotten my point across. If not, please comment and I will reply.
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i feel that it is wrong9% Voted for by The MisSin Truth, NeferMaatNetjer, looking4realtruth, Emotions, Energizer Bunny. (6 total)
don't get it twisted, cause i don't feel its right to hate anyone and i'm not any big gay basher at all, i more just act like it doesnt exist.
for someone to be with the same sex is completely unnatural. weather you are a faithful servant of one of the many "gods" there are or if your a athiest you still have to accept laws of nature...i.e., positive and negitive, good and evil, female and male...those are balances. if you can't procreat than what the hell are you here for. i have not scene a male bird trying to bang another male bird, if its so natural than why are humans the only animals to be gay. there was once a time that i thought it was okay but the more gay people i knew the more i came to see that it wasn't. i have yet to meet a gay man or woman who doesn't have severe emotional issues, or a bisexual woman who didn't start being bisexual on account of wanting to do it to get attention from a man. now given we all do have emotional issues, but really every gay person i have ever met has had some severe mental shit going on. in another aspect, i have also come to a theory that gay men just love women sooooo much that they want to be us, and gay women love men sooooo much cause they want to be them...its more of just a crossing of wires.
really we don't allow grown men to sex up todlers because its sick unnatural, why should anything else of satisfying a unnatural sexual urge be right.
i might get a lot of hate for this but oh well. i don't hate ya'll i simply have my own opinion.
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its just how they are6% Voted for by Bob the Elder, catseyes2468, decoupage-dish, cosmosis.
its just how people are. if they are attracted to the same sex then fine its none of my buisness what some one does in there bed, aslong as they do not force it apone me then i will let them live there life there way. Homophobia is people who cannot except difrances. Openly gay people are people who have excepted themselves and are proud . If your are a in closet gey be open with yourself be proud of it !
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Let People Be Who They Are!6% Voted for by Gosh I Love You, Alexxx, cosmosis, rsqrondreams.
I don't see what the big deal is. We have much more important things going on in this world than to be worrying about homosexuality and whether it is right OR wrong. I find the number of debates on this site concerning homosexuality to be quite surprising. I think people are born that way and I also think that as long as it doesn't hurt anybody else, they should be able to live the way they want and not be told who they can and cannot love.
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Why should you care6% Voted for by Fictional-Being, Throwing The Rocks, cerokhol, cosmosis.
How does some person you dont even know affect you by them being gay?
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You Asked For My Opinion So Here It Is4% Voted for by Energizer Bunny, Emotions, keyman7.
You asked for my opinion without any religious overtones so here it is:
The thought of someone swapping slobber with someone else of the same sex makes me want to vomit.
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It Cant Be Helped4% Voted for by Midget Of Fury, gobuggy99, cosmosis.
Being "gay" isnt necessarily a choice for all people. Granted, yes, there are some people who choose to like people of the same sex but I actually sat down one day and watched a program on this. For the people who dont choose to be homosexual it's actually in their brain from birth. Males and females have two different brain structures. Gay men are born with the female type of brain while gay women are just the opposite. Who are we to shun or discourage it when it's something they're born knowing? It's like telling someone born with no eyeballs that they should sprout a pair to see with, it just aint happenin'.
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sex is natural?4% Voted for by Embers of Elm, rsqrondreams, NorCalDude.
I guess if animals do it... yeha right. If you wnat to be an animal start and end there, go have your nasty animal sex. Just like that Your deepness starts and stops there. Be gay be strait. Be an animal. Or you can be something more, and ascend past "animal" or "man" Your choice








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Much agreed
Government shuld not regulate religion its seperation of church and state and their only basis for opposing gay marriage is Christianity. FlipflopinTMPlease register or login to comment! It's totally free