If my parents waited until they were married to have sex, they wouldn't have any kids nor grand kids.
In fact, my parents STILL aren't married and they have had sex.
So, you are 40 years old, still a virgin, and you don't have a spouse.
To some religious people, it's too darn bad for you! Gonna die a virgin, just because you aren't married.. what a darn shame.
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I'm for it23% Voted for by classical beauty, irisfreamon, -TheLoneWolf-, CrazyRebel.
I'm all for sex before marriage. Noone should have to go through life without experiancing sex. But, people must use protection because there's too many damn children running around overpopulating the planet.
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Sex after marriage is better17% Voted for by keyman7, Netanya Shull, NeedsLNow.
Sex and the whole culture centered around breeding is over rated. Marriage is one of the few ways to keep the mating urge under control, or at least within safe boundaries. Sure, one might find a way around it that is seemingly just as effective, but a few moments of good feeling are no comparison to a culture with a more controlled outlook on natural urges.
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Why should it matter11% Voted for by metal15, -TheLoneWolf-.
Society and religion trie to kill all of our instincts. Why shouldnt we have sex before marriage. Its not in our genes to go through some strange ritual before breeding with someone.
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*It Dose So Much Matter*Voted for by Devsouane.
In my opinion it's important to do not have sex before marrige because animals choice to have sex whenever they would like so if a dog saw a girl dog he'll have sex with her such as he's eating his meal so God made for us a way that we'll be not like animals that what let the love be forever and that's what nature says !
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It's Each Individuals ChoiceVoted for by LoveTripper.
It's up to each person. If you want to wait for marraige, you should, and if you don't want to, then you shouldn't. It's no ones choice but your own.
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it's all in the way you were raisedVoted for by amela.
I honestly think it's all in the way you were raised. My mother and I have a very open relationship and talk about everything. She has instilled a sense of value in me, making me realize that my body is nobody's but my own. She has taught me that virginity is something special that you share with that one special person. My body deserves and demands more respect than just a one night stand. Being a woman myself, I have developed a sixth sense and know when a man has one thing on his mind. And before anyone asks, I'm twenty years old and still a virgin BY CHOICE.
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Tch.Voted for by ThisEndUp.
Unless you want kids, or you really love someone and want to do that with them, I really don't believe you should have sex.
To me, the phrase, 'no sex before marriage' means that you shouldn't do it unless you truly love someone. If you marry someone, you most likely love that person. It shouldn't just be about you having pleasure, it should be about love. ¬¬
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ONES OWN CHOICEVoted for by rushing river.
I think that that's a very good subject, personaly my brother wouldn't be here if my parents hadn't had sex before they were married. I think that it's all up to the person and their partner, of course all MUST BE SAFE!!!!!! but really it's just a matter of religion or not. I think that it's fine to have sex before marriage , but i dont think i will, but im not going to go judgeing ppl on their own choice, I live in a town that 80% of the girls aren't virgins, and theres more gals then dudes here. But thats not the point, i think that it's all up to the person. If ya wanna have sex then be safe, If you dont, then dont. I'm not going to, but thats just me .
Rushing River
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Not for me.
I couldn't do it ... but alot of religions only see sex as a way to create, not as a form of self gratification. (Maybe the reason so many preists have molested little kids? sexual fustration maybe?)Of course if you're a virgin you really don't know what you're missing out on, so its not really a loss. (I bet it would drive a 40yr. old virgin crazy wondering what its like though.)
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August 7, 2005
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YOUR WRONG!
You were a child once, maybe someone thought YOU were overpopulating the planet, so therefore you have NO room to talk...and for the sex before marriage, protection cannot always work, ive heard of people getting pregnant even when they use protection, so its not approved 100%. I believe there's someone out there for everybody, so why aren't they looking? are they afraid that they'll get too bored with just one partner so they have to go screw half the male population....thats my opinion though..but one more thing..IN YOUR EYE! Thank you have a nice day and God bless! -KaylaOctober 5, 2005
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November 2, 2005
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Refer to my Previous Comment
Refer to my previous comment under "Why should it matter?" Why are we so ashamed of sex? The only reason we should be ashamed of it is when we tarnish it by sleeping with everyone just for the heck of it! While it's true that protection doesn't always work, at least the couple was responsible! Give them credit for that much. Sex is natural and should never be called animalistic. Why suppress when the couple is responsible, knows the consequences, and truly love one another? Sex is a wonderful and beautiful thing and should never be looked down upon under those circumstances.Please register or login to comment! It's totally free