And I need help spelling, seriously.

From a guy, scared of your stuff. If you want to increase your chances of getting men or guys to stay with you, here is a breif look into the average males mind.

1. I'm being over run! When guys enter your place and you have a ton of pouporri, good lord it's like our senses are being over run, one or two little pouporri thingies are good enough but when you have one in the bathroom, the kitchen table, the living room table, and the bedroom night stand, holy hell that's such a strong scent it can make our eye's water! Sadly enough I once went out on a double date with my freind, his girlfreind, and mine as well, but when we went into her appartment to get her "handbag", he had an allergic reaction! (actually it was severe hay fever) unfortunatley I shot him full of insulin cause it looked just like an allergic reaction, and now sadly he's been in the hospital for insulin overdose for three days since.

So becareful of how much of that stuff you put in your place, it may not seem like a very strong scent, just remmember, the human body is designed to adapt, even to smells, cause no matter what the smell is you start to get used to it and eventually can't even smell it.

2. How the hell I'm I supposed to compair to that! You know those posters or even pictures of those hot guys on your wall, well guess what, sorry to tell you this but get rid of them, when we look at your wall and see like one or two, sometimes even three of them were alright, it gives us information as to who you like, but four or more, hell shut that damned door.

Instead of throwing all of them away, what you can do is just keep the balance, for every male picture or poster have one female picture or poster so we don't have to feel like we need to compair ourselves. And there's an added plus to doing this he will be curious as to who some of them are and will give you something to talk about, instead of what telemarketers call "dead air".

3. AHHH! Zee Amerikanz Are invading, fire zee nebelwerzer! I'am reffering to those scented candles all you females have, cause when we see those it's like were going to war to kill them ALL! MWAHAHA! sorry. But seriously when you have all these scented candles it freaks us out, now here's what you do, get rid of all them except a candle that is vanilla, coffee, or pumkin scented, men don't like exotic smells that much we only like specific ones, which are hard to guess.

Pumpkin is preffered since it has an added bonus in males it increases the blood flow to lets just say a "specific area" and seems to calm us down, so if you want increased chances of, well getting him in bed Pumpkin is best.

I will update this as I think of more.

I dont care what you have in your house , Im not intimidated, I dont care what you think is right or wrong , I have my own opinions, if you think it needs doing ...do it , if its to heavy for you, why would I want to pick it up, if you need a pack mule , buy one, If you want a companion for the rest of your life, talk to a guy who is secure enough in himselfe not to bow down to your incistancies, and wont act as your pack animal, treat him like you want to be treated and it all works out

In my opinion unwarrywonderer you are justr extremely insecure. I mean, you look at other females so why can't females look at other guys. The reason they have all the posters up on the wall is because they can never have the guys. I mean, realistically how many girls are going to be able to date Usher? The reason you are over in their room in the first place is because they like you.. Not because they want to compare you to the posters on the wall. As to the Scented candles and incense. Well, that is an opinion. I actually happen to really like the smell of incense and of scented candles. I like having them burning and when I go over to my girlfriends house I love having her room smell like it. Now, I agree... to much can be bad however, if it kept into perspective it can be very nice. I think that you should become more self-confident and realize that, unlike most guys, a girl normally has to like you before she invites you to her room and it is natural human nature to look at others and think they are atrractive.