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What is the most significant cause of playing the role of passive partner in homosexuality?

There are many male homosexuals who prefer to play the part of passive partner in sexual activity. What is the most important thing that forces them to do so????


  • Good lord. This is terrible.

    There is nothing that "causes" homosexuals to play a submissive or dominant role in anything. People just are the way they are. There are just as many submissive and dominant heterosexuals, and I don't see anyone asking them why they're submissive or dominant. So just because someone is gay doesn't mean they need to have a special explanation as to why they act one way or another.

    27%  Voted for by RubyMeadowhawk, quality revenge, Invisible Comfort, Kyleen, cosmosis.
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  • most pointless but hey, people want to know...

    what has this got to do with anything?

    i would guess a mans g-spot is a nice thing to have excited. but if you did research you would have found that most males who "play" the passive part also play the dominate part in their sexual activities.

    16%  Voted for by Kazrith, Akito, cosmosis.
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  • illusion

    Just because you're on top doesn't mean you're in charge. The dom. loves their partner and wouldn't want to hurt them too bad so don't they stop when they're told? And the passive partner does have a tendancy (sorry ahead of time for stereo typing) to be a little more in the ways of seduction? It takes two to have sex and it takes two votes, generally, to decide what happens in bed. So just because you're on bottom doesn't mean you're completely submissive anyways. It does just seem easier to label based on looks or personality who's on bottom and who plays wife but can't a wife make a man cower with one of 'those' looks?

    11%  Voted for by Akito, cosmosis.
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  • its easier

    its easier being passive in bed, you dont have to work so hard

    11%  Voted for by pollywolly, Emotions.
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  • I vote: No Labels

    This was and is a comment on Rion Janv's orig. comment/ but i think that i make a pretty good point with this and it's what i truly believe, so there it goes.

    personally, i think that homosexual relationships shouldn’t be so bitch/butch. i mean that’s how they are, but i generally think that those terms are demeaning. i believe that partners should be equal in all aspects of the relationship. if you like to be on the bottom then good for you, but that doesn’t make you any less of a man. i say just be who you are… no labels added. people label everything so damn much already…

    Voted for by Scion.
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  • Passive and Female?

    There is a difference in being the passive one and the femanine one. When ever a friend asks me if I'm the butch or the bitch i always reply, "I am the butch and I am the bitch!" I'm deffinately the feminine one in the relationship, but I'm also the dominant one.

    Voted for by Drabarno Ruv.
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  • so many reasons..

    Many boys always like to be passive/submissive/object in homosexuality. It is perhaps because of small size of their organ,hairless chest and legs, and plumpy body and moreover, they r habitual of it to become male-wife

    Voted for by Emotions.
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  • a game of chance

    homosexuals play both roles term by term i think, ormay be other reason..i don't know,.

    Voted for by Wanderer1976.
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  • Still question is there????

    i could not get the real answer still why men love to become passive in homosexuality.

    Voted for by Emotions.
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  • People are the way they are ,because they are the way they are
    Passive and dominant people are that because they simply are. It has nothing to do with who is less masculine or, in lesbian relationship, less feminine. I, even though am a female, tend to be the guy in any relationship, strait or gay, while being either passive or dominant in bed depending on my mood. It depend only on your character.

    Voted for by RebelRebel.
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