If I could erase all of the past relationships I have been through, I wouldn't be the me I have come to be. My past relationships good and bad have tought me many many things. With out those precious times with the other person I wouldn't be able to comprehend the 'Perfect Relationship' when it came along. This is because I wouldn't have the past experiences anymmore to tell me how to act what to do/not to do. I know all relationships are diffrent but you learn a little from each. Why would you ever want to get rid of that which you have learned? Or better yet even if the relationship was horrible would you sacrifice a moment that occured within the relationship that made you the happiest person on the face of the Earth to forget the pain? You must live your life, make your decisions, and learn. Sadly sometimes that means you must get hurt to learn but that is part of life.

Because one ex who I can't stop thinking of and get rid of had such an effect on my life The way I look at things, Who I chose who to go with, Even the way I think,

he pretty much help create my personalitly because I pick up on a lot of his traits and some he help me form I felt like I was just born, I felt brand new when I met him he has really change me and if he was erased from my mind all the sudden I don't know what kind of person I would be but not the Raneika that I am today... p.s and he also responsible for 60% of my poetry because I'm obsess and deeply in love with him even when he has someone else I can't help it I should leave him alone but I can't I will forever love him...

Eternal Sunshine on a spotless mind. In this movie, sorry to relate philosophy with the media. The two people have their the memory of each other erased. but while this is happening, they find out just how much they loved each other and how, even though their relationship is over, they want to keep the good memories of each other, because looking back on these, they make happy, and though it hurts to think that they'll never touch, hold and have the same feelings, they still want to keep the good times, to learn and grow from. see this movie if you havent, it's awesome.

No, You'd be the same as you were before the relationship and so you'd go and make the same mistake or do the same thing. Otherwise it would mean that the memory didn't get erased. So, the point of erasing any memory would be useless

I wish i could erase all the relationships i've been in well tech just the last to, i have so much baggage from them, that i dont feel safe in the relationship im in now, its really hard and frustrating. my partner knows bout most of the things that have dragged me down and now hes not so keen for me to go see me brother and sister in law because my ex is always around at their place, i dont know weather or not hes scearded i'll go back to him or if it will tear me apart and have me depressed again, i love the guy im with now but its just those memories that drags me down, i dont know how to get rid of the feelings and rid of all the memories i have with me ex and its scears me just to think about them. so now I lost in my own head all the time replaying memories or hurting myself just with the thought of him, and its dragging me and my partner down, so if anyone can help me on this situation i'd be soooooo glad to hear from you. i really need you lovely peoples help. ta.