Sometimes it so happens that two true lovers start losing attraction in one another; they even quarrel on petty matters and even mention that they have no feelings for their partner anymore..! The pure lovers look indifferent and strangers. Why and on what grounds such untoward event happens??...Please give your valuable opinions.
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Lover's end?28% Voted for by Mujtaba H Zaidi, ohsweetie2788, thinking, jojomon.
There could be thousands of reasons why two people lose interest in each other. This may be one; perhaps it is because they are lovers and desire to remain lovers. But the relationship is changing. In a lover relationship there are alot of power issues which are over looked (for good reason) but when the relationship is changing into who squeezed the toothpaste tube in the middle again or who didn't take out the garbage or one of a thousand other petty issues, sometimes there is adjustment time needed. If this is the case it would be nice if they could focus on the good part of thier relationship while going through changing times. None the less it always works out for the best and if not, we make it. Hey, it could also be they just decided they didn't really like each other after all and can't find the proper way to end it. Time will tell.
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Maybe Not In Love?14% Voted for by sjrlink100, Wanderer1976.
It could be quite possible the weren't really in love in the first place.
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Love14% Voted for by strawberry gashes, Wanderer1976.
True love, the relationship may end, but the feeling never does, if you truly love someone, really love them, and you will know when you do. then the feeling never dies, you will move on, probably love again, but the true love, the first love will always be with you, it is impossible to remove the feelings of that person. at first, every memory of your love will hit you like a thousand knives, the very thought will leave you an emtional mess. this happened to me for 6 months. getting over my love took nearly as much time as when we were together. I had a relationship where i didn't know i loved him till it was to late. He has loved me, so he said you years, we went out, and it was wonderful, but i was never sure of my feelings, i kept our relationship a secret. and in the end, he was over my constant confusion, and the way i treated him. after this i released that i really did love him, with all of my heart and soul. i begged and pleaded for him to love me again. I was put into mental health because i became so depressed without him. he was my rock, i was with him for two years, he was always there and was never meant to leave. he was my best friend. 6 months on. I still miss him, i broke al contact with him because i knew it would hurt to much to see him and not put my arms around him. Now i regret so much that i didn't keep a friendship, i love him even now, but i have got past the longing feeling for him. I think of the good memories, and they make me smile, not cry. what i wouldnt give to just talk to him, ride in his car. know there will never be a relationship but know he still thinks of me and our love was not in vain.
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True love doesnot end not even with our lives14% Voted for by cerokhol, Emotions.
true love continues on forever even after the body decays unto the earth it should continue for as long as the two spirits are intertwined in destiny and should be used by those spirits to help each other to survive all their challenges!!!!!
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Romantic LoveVoted for by Launcelot.
is completly dangerous!! If you base your relationship on Romantic Love it is bound to fail, that type of love fades by nature. Romantic Love is also completly unstable, and will not make for anykind of permiance. If you want a love that will last go for the Realistic or Traditional love styles. Dont think that love is Romantic love, youll be confused and in temporary relationships.
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True love never dies!!!!!Voted for by Dancing Doll.
death cannot bring the message of the end of true love...true loves neither mitigates nor ends at any cost.
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Love ends surelyVoted for by Wanderer1976.
when lovers become selfish and hink only about themselves not about their partner, it is the end of love.
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changes of loversVoted for by Emotions.
love does not end, but it transfers from one person to some other..one cannot stick to one person only the whole life i think.
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September 30, 2005
when its over its over
I have learned that when the love is gone that there is no bringing it back, you may try and try but it never happens, the Heart never lies.October 2, 2005
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